mds_02 wrote:
I hate them. I've had people I've met online, people who I actually liked quite a bit, pretty much stop talking to me because I sucked so hard at it. I don't know what to say when I'm in the moment. Of course they'd take my short responses, and the long time it took me to make them, as a sign that I wasn't into the conversation when it was really very much the opposite. I definitely prefer talking to people on a message board, through private messages if the conversation is more personal, because it gives me the time to think through what they've said and come up with a worthwhile response.
Totally.
I have very short responses when someone DOES private message me for example (not IM but still random 1 on 1) and even shorter if I don't really want to talk to them.
Sometimes I don't even open them.