roccoslife wrote:
Cats dont mind being looked in the eyes, in fact one of their "greetings" is to look each other in the eye then slowly blink. Do it next time you see your cat, he'll most likely return the favor. Its akin to a smile to them.
Dogs on the other hand see eye contact as an act of agression.
I've read that a slow blink is a sign of affection. The cat equivalent of a smile is winking, which often indicates playfulness. They often return both slow blinks and winks
But if you blink too slowly, they twitch their ears as a sign of confusion.
As for eye contact, I've found that it helps when you almost close your eyes. Cats squint to indicate that they're in a sociable and friendly mood and feel safe around you. Wide open eyes signal playful attentiveness, great interest or aggression, depending on the ear position. Since they can't "read" our ear posture, they sometimes mistake our usually wide open eyes as a sign of aggression. But if you squint a bit, they know that you mean them no harm
Yawning helps too. Cats often yawn as an appeasing anti-agression gesture.