1. I hate being touched, especially unexpectedly. I have to initiate the touch or have it be something I expect, like a handshake, or I react badly. Also, I need people to stay out of my "slap zone": if I wave my hand in an arc in front of me and you're close enough for me to slap, you're too close.
2. I can't stand blinking lights or ticking clocks. They trigger meltdowns.
3. I refuse to wear the colors pink, orange, or yellow, or any variation of them.
Those are only three of my many quirks.
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