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18 Dec 2012, 9:53 pm

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If I start thinking about the Ebola virus, I can't stop thinking about it. I start to think that anything that I touch could be infected with the virus. In the past it has consumed my life. It's a pretty horrible virus. Whenever I see a headline or anything about it, I resist reading it so that it won't get my mind on the subject.


Your astronomically safe as long as you don't start living in rural central africa. All the cases have been there except 3 labratory accidents that only effected the 3 individuals that had the accident (one in UK, 2 in Russia).



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19 Dec 2012, 3:41 pm

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irrational things? Things that you know you shouldn't be afraid of but if your mind hears about it it becomes afraid. It's almost like being a young child who is afraid of things all the time. Its annoying to have that tendency in my mind , I jus't try to ignore it . I wonder if others have silly fears?


Oh yeah. All the time. I can´t even put a finger on it most of the time.


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19 Dec 2012, 3:44 pm

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What´s that mean? Are you jailed? 8O


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19 Dec 2012, 10:52 pm

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Toy Soldier has this on his profile:
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What´s that mean? Are you jailed? 8O


Most stuff in avatars (and sometimes signatures) is meant as a joke, sarcasm or weirdness. I don't know about where you live, but in the USA there is a sizeable Anti-Mime Lobby. Something about them just doesn't agree with us, or maybe we just don't get it. You know those people who wear black, paint their faces white and act out things rather then talk ? Those are Mimes.



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23 Jan 2013, 4:43 am

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How old is your daughter?
Sorry, I never received a notification about this thread, so I've just come across your question. She's 7yrs.


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23 Jan 2013, 6:14 am

Severe phobia:
Heights!

Also fear choking, and mildly claustrophobic.

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23 Jan 2013, 9:22 am

I think irrational fears are irrational because your logical mind knows it's highly unlikely that the feared event can happen, but you still fear it pretty badly.

I fear that something awful might happen to my family (parents and siblings) - accidents or something. I sometimes get really distressed by that thought. I sometims have nightmares like that.

As someone mentioned, I fear ebola really badly, too, though, as someone else pointed out, it's almost impossible to get it in most other locations. I remember when there was a pandemic of some dangerous virus (bird flu, saas or something - I cannot remember what it was), there was a news report mentioning the possibility of the virus having spread in a new location through a button of a hotel elevator which had possibly been touched by an infected person. That really scared me and I don't even want to touch a doorhandle at work or any public place. I guess it's irrational, but I can't help it.



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23 Jan 2013, 9:33 am

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No, I'm quite the opposite.


This.


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23 Jan 2013, 7:56 pm

Mummy_of_Peanut wrote:
Aprilviolets wrote:
How old is your daughter?
Sorry, I never received a notification about this thread, so I've just come across your question. She's 7yrs.


That's okay i was just thinking if that was the age I started having fears although the stress of being bullied at school would have made it worse.



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23 Jan 2013, 9:48 pm

I tend to be a worry wart, and although it's about things that could happen or are inevitable eventually, at the times I worry about them they're not usually that likely at all. I would call that an irrational kind of fear.

But the term "irrational" can also have a positive meaning, such as the irrational side of us that is imaginative, artistic, intuitive. So I'd rather say they're unhelpful or unproductive fears.


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24 Jan 2013, 12:35 pm

I have always suffered from the irrational fear that everything goes the hard way. (Some things actually do, but not all.) Reasoning is of no help here, the fear stays. Everything fails, nothing works.



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03 Mar 2013, 12:44 am

I'm afraid of most social interactions with anyone I haven't grown accustomed to, which is anyone I don't have frequent communication with. Introductions are the worst; I like to have friends do that for me. Talking in/to a group is pretty bad too. I'm much more afraid of men than women.

Other things: parasites, needles, knives, fire, people breaking my stuff, my dog getting run over (my road is usually only driven on by my family, the police, and three neighbors), pregnancy/labor, getting Alzheimer's or dementia, and anywhere I can't escape from easily.



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03 Mar 2013, 12:48 am

That depends on what you mean by irrational.


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03 Mar 2013, 2:03 pm

I can't stand being picked up or turned upside down. I also jump about 5 inches backwards when I see an earthworm.



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05 Mar 2013, 2:27 am

Not completely phobic here, but have a host of borderlines. Insects/worms, thunder, and large crowds. Probably some slight agoraphobia too, and a love/hate relationship with the unexpected.



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05 Mar 2013, 4:14 am

MONKEY wrote:
I think phobias are quite common among autistics, I've read it as a co-morbid symptom on one of the main criteria lists.
For me it's vomiting and minor-moderate illness (cancer, broken legs etc don't scare me at all but flu does.) And I'm scared of losing freedom, and any time I have a job paid or not I feel claustrophobic and trapped. And I don't like seeing people force fed, so when parents try to force their kids to eat what's on the plate it really disturbs and panics me.



i have the same fear of vomiting, even typing that word is difficult. i did not know phobias and autism went together though.