auntblabby wrote:
danmac wrote:
all the money in the world can't make you rich, but it does help!
danmac wrote:
live how you want to be, and the rest will fall into place.
ok, if i wanna live in a clifftop abode above pacific beach [washington coast] but lack the duckies to make that happen or the means to get the duckies to pay for such] then how will i be able to live "how i want to be"? how will the rest "fall into place"? enquiring minds want to know.
Simply by stopping to think about dreams, accepting reality as borders of your wishes, and then choosing the best possible solution. If you choose to live on the moon, when you cant to so, its your fault as well because of you dreaming instead of thinking of the best possible option to make you as happy, as you can.
If it was about dreamland and fairytales, I would like to have my own pacific island with noone on it but me and my partner I´d earn my money by writing books or something else, I can do alone on my computer, and the rest of the day I would grow veggies and catch fish. This would be my absolute dream, but you dont need dreams to be happy, reality allows you to be happy as well.
So I dont have my own island, but I live in a small, peaceful village, with a small river right behind my house. The house is very old, and we needed to renew everything. Doors, windows, roof, wet walls, heating, water supply, sewers, ... Still we could live in it from the first moment, and whenever some money is left, we renew the next part. Because its so old, there are lots of small buildings in the garden, so a small room where you cooked your cloths by hands in earlier days, a small wooden house for the gardening stuff and so on... They are linked with walls as it was custom in earlier days, so I dont get to see my neighbors. ^^The front side itself is closed by the house and at the fourth side is the small river with a field behind it and a small hill with a forest and behind that there are only two farms I dont see anyway. The field is only for hay supply, so the farmers are only working on it about 6 days in the year.
Sure, a tropical island would still be much better, and the old house sometimes drives me mad when you want to renew something, and then you find again 12 other things you need to renew as well, you didnt know before and having a real holiday at home and not an "renewing the house by holiday" would be nice. But when the sun shines and I sit in my garden, reading a book or watching the cat catching her fifth mouse on the field, then maybe I am not supersupersupersuperhappy. But being happy is ok as well.
And carrying building material keeps you sporty. ^^