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ThetaIn3D
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17 Jun 2013, 12:57 am

One thing I like about her is that she actually reflects many of my favorite things about myself; creativity, empathy (in the non-clinical sense), loyalty, tenderness, love of music, insightfulness and so forth. She makes interesting talks, she's helped me understand my condition a lot and helped me feel better about it, and yes, she's my kind of attractive. It's her mannerisms too.

And her voice. When I was educating my family about Asperger's, we were listening to one of her videos while working on a puzzle, and she said something like "sorry this is so long", and my brother said, "don't be sorry, I could listen to you all day." Yup, you must be my brother, I thought. :lol:

I'm quite sure she hears these things all the time, but what can I say. Her being an Aspie makes me happy to be an Aspie, is one way to put it. I can't help but like her.

She is taken. But it has me thinking, maybe there's a few more Majas out there. Maybe some Aspies even. :D The first thing is, it makes me realize I want to be that sort of an Aspie. It makes me realize there's no reason why I can't develop myself to the same degree she has.



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17 Jun 2013, 5:27 am

blue_bean wrote:
... an average looking ... .


I'd also like to see something that isn't a typical self-help whore fest.

You know, some people are actually happy with where they are and their lack of "success".



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17 Jun 2013, 5:32 am

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In that context the Aspie girl decides if she is ready or wants to pursue a relationship.


It's not that good on the "good looking" side of social disability either, really.

Sure, people will be interested, but they'll soon tire of your social deficits. Males are just as biased towards such as females, even if they do manifest at different times.

A hot aspie chick who has many short relationships doesn't sound any better than a typical aspie male who has few to none.



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17 Jun 2013, 11:33 pm

Dillogic wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
In that context the Aspie girl decides if she is ready or wants to pursue a relationship.


It's not that good on the "good looking" side of social disability either, really.

Sure, people will be interested, but they'll soon tire of your social deficits. Males are just as biased towards such as females, even if they do manifest at different times.

A hot aspie chick who has many short relationships doesn't sound any better than a typical aspie male who has few to none.

A fair point



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22 Jan 2016, 9:44 am

I really wonder if Maja herself would really like this thread? The title is asking her to marry the OP.



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22 Jan 2016, 1:09 pm

Well, she's had about two years and a half to complain, and she didn't. I guess she doesn't care all that much.


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22 Jan 2016, 5:11 pm

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22 Jan 2016, 8:33 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
Well, she's had about two years and a half to complain, and she didn't. I guess she doesn't care all that much.


Maybe she hasn't seen this thread, or maybe even if she has, she hasn't complained because she doesn't post here. Though she does claim to be registered here in one of her videos.