Something Embarrassing Happened

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It's cute because it means you're human.....and that you are not perfect. Nobody's perfect.

If two people in love can laugh at themselves, then laugh with each other, then the love affair is great.

I don't get turned on by "perfect" people. I get turned on by people who are not perfect, yet could laugh at themselves.

There is a bench near the coffee house, I sat there thinking, it's like falling of a horse, if you fall off, you need to get back on. I went in, I sat at a table looking at him, he was busy making sandwiches, I didn't recognize him at first, he was wearing new glasses. I went up to the counter & order my sandwich & mocha coffee. Someone else was taking my order & then he asked me if I want everything on my sandwich, I said yea in a shy way. He acted like nothing happened.


It's been a few months, I'm giving up!! I can't even say hi. He talks to other customers, but not me. I'm tired of this! I'm not coming to the coffee house too much anymore, I can't do this anymore! I love the coffee house & I really like seeing that guy, he has a very nice name, Jeff.
I can start going to the gym, I need to lose ALOT of weight. When I lived on my own before, I lost 60 lbs, I learned to love to exercise. When I lost at least 30 lbs, I got rid of alot of body pain & I could control my balance.

I know you're not "in love" yet. I was just describing how love could happen.

You could start talking to him---then start trying to lose the 30 pounds. Maybe talk about how great he makes your mocha or something. And that you appreciate his good service.

LOL....I'm not promising that you'll make a connection with this guy. But it doesn't hurt to try. You don't have to seduce him right there in the coffee place! hee hee. Just talk to him.

I've seen your picture. You have a nice smile. You have nice hair. You seem like a sincere person. Why shouldn't a man want to be your boyfriend?

I think it's good that you see the humour in what happened.

I like women with a little meat on their bones

LOL...you're taking me too literally!

I used a metaphorical expression.

You might be somewhat overweight--but you're not extreme by any means.

When someone says they prefer "meat on one's bones," they mean that they don't want somebody who starves his/her self. They want somebody who enjoys life, and who is not always striving towards perfection. So what if a person is overweight! It's better to be a little overweight than a lot starving.

I weight more than you may know. I need to lose weight for my health.