Claradoon wrote:
This is a great long autistic rambling which you need not read. I suggest that it was Linda's sickness & death that might have made Paul temporarily evil.
Would this nasty behaviour on the part of Paul have occurred maybe between 1995-1998? That was when Linda was sick and dying. Add a few years for grieving?
I remember a long period of time when Paul went berserk but nobody knew why. His people were terrified of him. He had people going through garbage pails and if there was evidence of meat for lunch, the individual was fired on the spot, and Paul would have the individual blacklisted for further employment anywhere. I was surprised when he carried those rules on tour and made a point of destroying at least one person in each city.
But wasn't that the exact opposite of the kind of guy we were used to? Later, I thought, what if people blamed Paul's smoking for Linda's cancer? He certainly went berserk. Nobody would discuss it, or anything else about Paul; they were afraid of him.
So I look at the copyright date of the biography by Peter Ames Carlin and it's 2009. If he had all details of the Berserk Period, then how long does it take to write a biography? I think the time frame is possible, given the proof of accuracy required - it must have taken forever to write.
He was certainly out of his mind when he married Wife #2.
And when that was all over, he admitted to seeing a psychiatrist, thank heaven.
p.s. no, the dates don't match. Paul & Linda played the Montreal Forum on Dec.9/89 - I remember looking at the marquis and that was when I was told of his wretched behaviour. And the rules seemed to all about Linda - veganism, wall to wall fresh flowers in the dressing room but *absolutely no trees* may lightening strike you.
I don't remember him going berserk in the book but his jerkish behavior was mostly happening during his time with Wings.
It is kind of common though with talented people being kind of difficult to work with. I kind of wonder if in Paul's case it was hard for him to find an equal in music. Not a lot of people get to his level in music and he might have had a hard time communicating his ideas with other people. On that note, I can kind of relate with him because music is the thing I know best and, honestly, might be the only thing I'm really good at either and it's hard to find people to work with at my level. I was at a music school and they assigned us to be in bands and I thought everything was going fine and I was just helping people and showing people the right parts to play and one of the band members blew up on me saying I was condescending and acted like everyone else didn't know what they were doing and I'm still not sure why he thought that.
Yeah...turns out you can be so good at something that it can be a problem...
Paul McCartney did resort to name calling though a couple of times and maybe he did overwork his band members and had some ideas that his band members maybe weren't really enthusiastic about.
I kind of wonder if he developed an ego after being in the Beatles but even the Beatles couldn't really stand each other after a certain amount of time, haha!
People might think Paul could have stood to be nicer but a lot of people don't know what it's like to be in a band because, oi vey, being in a band can be really stressful. As far as I've heard with stories about other band members, Paul McCartney is actually one of the nicer people.