Blamed For Things That Are Not My Fault.

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Today I got blamed for using too much disinfectant at work, and it annoyed me.

When we have to disinfect the buses we were specifically told (about 3 weeks ago) to only put 1 litre of disinfectant into the bucket, which I understood straight away and it's very easy because we have a jug that we measure the disinfectant liquid in before pouring it into the bucket. But more disinfectant is mysteriously being used than it should be, even though all of us are following the rules to only use 1 litre at a time. Last week my supervisor asked all of us seperately how much litres we put into the bucket, and all of us (including me) said 1, just to make sure we all understood. Then today I overheard my supervisor ranting to one of the other workers about more disinfectant being used, and I heard him say, "I think it's Joe90 using 2 litres each time instead of 1". I felt cross, because I don't see why I was being blamed when I understood how much disinfectant to use as good as the other workers. So I went up to him and told him that I always use 1 litre. But I still think that he thinks it's me who's using more, and he won't think otherwise until he can prove it isn't me. I don't see why the finger should be pointed at me, just because I have poor math skills. I do know what a litre is, because I use the jug that has the correct measurement on. It's just frustrating me.

I had that where I worked in the past, and I was being blamed... And I later found out that most of the tools that had gone missing had been stolen by the head of the department, who was the very one who had been telling me off! I think he blamed me to take the suspicion away from himself?
Anyway. It is all in the past.

have found from experience thst devious NTs in general seem to like to target people whom are just frankly honest about their observation to the point of appearing annoying to NTs whom lack words or perceptions of obvious situations . As most AS persons are easily capable of , will often do. This makes AS persons as easy targets for NTs to use for abuse . Have seen this issue even since childhood in dealing especially with siblings . And on into adult life in dealings with less than ethical individuals .. imho.

I used to get blamed for things that are not my fault and it sucked!
Having Aspergers made me an easy target for bullies and people to take advantage of me.
Having Aspergers has made it very hard for me to transition into adulthood.
Having Aspergers has lead to me becoming long term unemployed with mental health issues.

Yes, just the other day. The shop keeps throwing a ton of rubbish at the back and left it there. My next door neighbour seems to think it was me, I was telling him that I didn't do this. The joke is, he ended up complaining to the council, only to shortly receive a letter from them warning me not to. Sadly, who would believe anyone with supposedly with mental health?

So much for living on top of a shop.

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