ouinon wrote:
Smoking at one time was def an aspie prop because it was how i met the people i generally got on with at bigger gatherings. When i stopped i would find myself with the ordinaries. The nicey normals, the borings. That is how it seemed to me.
It was something to stim with, something to stare at other than peoples eyes. It was very handy.
So i was wondering how much aspies smoke, and why, and about stopping etc? ? ? :)
Have smoked since age 17, am 34 now. Agree w/you on the social & sensory distraction function it provides. At gatherings & in public places, being outdoors around other smokers was how I met the few people I did. Smoked intermittently at first, in my 20's was up to pack a day-which is where I remain.
Never had any desire to quit, so haven't stopped. Of course I don't like the financial cost nor the eventual health f/x, though I figure something else is just as likely to kill me first-so might as well enjoy myself in the present.
Have been warned & hassled by people when they find out I smoke clove cigarettes, since they have all these horror stories-I'm not interested. The clove cigs. help make my life & environment more tolerable to me, on many levels (physically & mentally). Am unrepentant smoker, it feels good to me & I'm gonna' live my 'unhealthy lifestyle' (I eat non-nutritiously) 'til I'm no longer able to get away with it. Generally am a "now-oriented" (yet cautious) person-there's no certainty I'll be alive in future, so am not motivated by long-term concerns (guess that's an executive function difficulty, eh ?).
ouinon wrote:
It fits with what i thought when i was a smoker about introverted serious non-smoking types
Am very introverted serious type-my peers at school enjoyed
trying to get me to do what they were doing, such as smoking, drinking, and sex-I was very 'puritanical-minus the religiosity) and wasn't interested. That was in my early teens-wasn't yet ready to 'experiment' with those sort of 'adult' things. My interest grew as I got older/matured, around age 16-18, was 'late bloomer' (
relative to my peers) & am glad I didn't get into all that any earlier.
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