How do you deal with unwanted Male attention?

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14 Apr 2009, 11:30 am

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How do you deal with unwanted Male attention?

Hard to say, it doesn't happen very often.


happened to me once, many years ago. i was at a nightclub, trying to fit in ( :roll: ) when i figured out that all the drunk dancing chicks LET me grab their asses. as a sort of experiment, i continued to try it out, just walking around the dancefloor like some sleek pervert, even showing a very polite and non-grabby friend of mine how easy it was. he was freaking out, dying of embarassment, but i was still safe.

i turn around, some dude grabs my ass eagerly, and tries to dance with me :I

karma lightning bolt right there and then, man!

i hurried back to my table to behave nicely.


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14 Apr 2009, 11:36 am

ZEGH8578 wrote:
Henriksson wrote:
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How do you deal with unwanted Male attention?

Hard to say, it doesn't happen very often.


happened to me once, many years ago. i was at a nightclub, trying to fit in ( :roll: ) when i figured out that all the drunk dancing chicks LET me grab their asses. as a sort of experiment, i continued to try it out, just walking around the dancefloor like some sleek pervert, even showing a very polite and non-grabby friend of mine how easy it was. he was freaking out, dying of embarassment, but i was still safe.

i turn around, some dude grabs my ass eagerly, and tries to dance with me :I

karma lightning bolt right there and then, man!

i hurried back to my table to behave nicely.


ROFL! What goes around comes around... :lol: :lol: :lol:


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15 Apr 2009, 3:00 pm

I totally know how you mean..it sucks.

I usually openly tell them to go away, or bare my canine teeth in crude animal fashion. Seriously, I do that instinctively when pissed off...it's not too loveable :D


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15 Apr 2009, 4:07 pm

I usually just ignore them. Especially if they are in a car driving by.

But it can get scary sometimes if you're out on your own like that and. I don't like to walk the dog by myself anymore for similar reasons. I'm not really a paranoid person so I doubt anything would actually happen to me, most of the guys are harmless. But you never know when an actual pervert may come along so it couldn't hurt to get some kind of protection to carry around with you like a tazer or something. You'd want to be prepared if trouble does come.

Dressing down is a good idea but doesn't always cure the problem. Especially if you're curvy like I am.



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15 Apr 2009, 4:50 pm

A guy in a car honked at me once, I was thinking, "WTF?" He probably didn't realise how young I am, LOL, I was going to my friend's Halloween party and I was dressed really slu*ty for a dare. :lol:


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15 Apr 2009, 5:49 pm

How do you deal with unwanted female attention? It's rare, but it can happen, especially with prostitutes. There was one car which used to drive by and a woman inside would call out "Heyyy, baaabyyyyy!" to me in a ridiculously lustful voice. The most logical explanation was that she was some kind of prostitute (and no, I don't do "business" with prostitutes.)