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25 Nov 2017, 12:29 am

My neighbors had a party. I wish I live in an apartment with no neighbors around me.



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25 Nov 2017, 7:03 am

Esmerelda Weatherwax wrote:
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Our rabbit is sick. She didn't finish her pellets last night & she always eats em till they're gone. She seemed fine last night except for that thou. I got her to eat some lettuce today but that was it. She's kind of lethargic but still hopping around some at times. She's not drinking & may be kind of nauseous. She may of chewed on something she shouldn't of cuz she chews on everything. We don't have a vet & we cant drive so we'll have to look online for vet offices we can get to by bus & then I'll have to call & see if they have experience with rabbits. Tomorrow is the day before ThanxGiving thou so it may be hard to get an appointment & I have a doc appointment tomorrow at 11 to get an ingrown toenail removed so coordinating things may be difficult. My girlfriend may try giving her water by a syringe or something. Hopefully she'll be doing alittle better tomorrow.
We took her to emergency animal hospital & she had some kind of infection & a very high fever. They gave her some fluids, an injection of an antibiotic & an antiinflammatory to try & bring down the fever. They said we could keep her there but it would cost $800 to $1000 cuz they weren't setup for rabbits. We decided to bring her home cuz she would of had to stay for two nights since buses don't run on ThanxGiving day. We couldn't really afford two nights there so they gave us some stuff to give her & said to bring her back if she gets worse. She was doing worse after we got home & by that point it was too late to take the bus back. She was having seizures & died 5 hours after we got her back home. I really think she would of died even if we decided to keep her there for the two nights. At least this way she died at home while my girlfriend was holding her & I was next to her. I guess her fever was just too high. She was about two years old when we got her & we only had her for 3 months. We got her cuz she had really bad vision & needed a good home. Maybe we shoudln't of gotten her. We weren't the best parents to her cuz we never had a rabbit before but we were getting a lot better. Me & Cass are both pretty devastated & cant stop crying :cry:


I'm so sorry.

Nick, please, you and your girlfriend, don't blame yourselves. Your sweet bunny girl was loved and had a warm home for the last months of her life, you took the best care of her that you knew how (and you wanted to learn and care for her well).

You cared about her. She didn't die in some cold, metallic place with strangers and machines all around her. She died in her mommy's arms with her daddy at her side, and she mattered to you, and you mourn her. She would thank you, if she could. I'm sure of it.

Warm hugs to you and your girlfriend both (I'm crying a little bit for her too, and for both of you).
Thanx Esmerelda. The vet called the next day to check on Winnie & the vet seemed upset by it too. She wished she could of done more but didn't know what more she could of done. The vet said Winnie was in good health otherwise so she was well cared for. I'm not blaming myself cuz I really don't see what I could of done differently that would of had a better outcome. I wouldn't of hesitated to pay the two thousand to keep her the two days if it really would of meant the difference & we known it but I really don't think there was much more they could of done. I'm still pretty upset but I'm managing. My girlfriend is blaming herself thou for lots of little things that I'm sure wouldn't of made a difference. Cass has depression thou so that's probably a lot of it. I'm doing my best to be supportive & reassure her. I think our Guinea pig & cat are missing Winnie too but I think they'll bounce back pretty quick. We buried Winnie today at Cass's parents house since we live in an apartment. It'll take some time but we'll gradually start feeling better. I'm sorry I made you cry but I really appreciate your concern :)


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25 Nov 2017, 11:37 am

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25 Nov 2017, 11:39 am

Hugs to you and Cass both, Nick. Don't worry about me crying, it's OK. Winnie mattered. Your other animals loved her too :-) I'm glad the vet called, I'm sure it was a comfort to hear from her.


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25 Nov 2017, 11:48 am

I detest the holidays.



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25 Nov 2017, 1:56 pm

Since sometime yesterday I haven't been able to get into Facebook. When I try, it sends me back to the home screen or the menu screen.

I must have been banned from Facebook, but I haven't gotten any messages or anything. I don't know if it's permanent. But if it was because of something I posted that offended certain people, I'm not sorry for doing that, I'm only sorry I can't get on Facebook. :evil:



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25 Nov 2017, 1:58 pm

Good for you for not being sorry. You should always speak as you find.

Back to the thread premise: Jonathan Kodjia being out for the rest of the season.


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25 Nov 2017, 1:58 pm

Oh wait, it was only because I had my pop-up blocker enabled. Never mind. :)



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26 Nov 2017, 11:25 am

Missunderstandings


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26 Nov 2017, 4:02 pm

We went shopping early(early for us) & I went to bed late because I got sidetracked & I didn't fall asleep for a bit so I probably got less than an hour of sleep. I'll take a nap sometime after breakfast which will be in a bit. I took a Vivarin(caffeine pill) before we left & I'm not feeling too tired rite now thou & it should of worn off by now so that's good.


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27 Nov 2017, 10:20 am

not feeling well


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28 Nov 2017, 3:39 am

I HATE myself. Gave in to clearly compulsive behaviour and felt like shite about it. It's chasing the dragon, just like I used to when I drank - believing in the idea of something, the IDEAL, when I KNOW the REALITY isn't like that.
Used to be convinced, every time when I drank, that I would be relaxed, I could just chill out and not think think think, it would mellow me out and make everything smooth and easy for a time and I could just check out and relax for a while. It was never like that. I felt horrible every single time and eventually, I trained myself out of believing the idea of drinking instead of the terminal reality.
Same with this. I KNOW it doesn't make me feel good, rationally. I KNOW I feel like crap and hate myself every time I do it, I don't enjoy it, I don't even WANT to do it - it's compulsive. I've just got to get from knowing it to believing it, and not getting stuck on the idea that if I do it it'll feel good.
It doesn't. Stop it.


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28 Nov 2017, 9:37 am

Anxiety about the world.


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28 Nov 2017, 4:25 pm

I can't find my bank card, and I was planning to officially start my Christmas shopping tomorrow. :(
I remember last using it in this card and gift store at the mall last Thursday. I got a little excited with my purchases, so maybe I left it there. Maybe they held onto it for me?



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29 Nov 2017, 9:59 am

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I can't find my bank card, and I was planning to officially start my Christmas shopping tomorrow. :(
I remember last using it in this card and gift store at the mall last Thursday. I got a little excited with my purchases, so maybe I left it there. Maybe they held onto it for me?

That happened to me before too.


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29 Nov 2017, 3:42 pm

The amount of increasing and decreasing and changing prescriptions, paper work, maturity, social anxiety, financial stress, insurance policies, driving, life balancing, and punctualness that is from having to take medication. Is it worth it all to help me get through my aspergers? You be the judge.