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05 Mar 2017, 5:43 am
You seem perfectly understandable to me.
You must be an imposter! 
05 Mar 2017, 6:03 am
05 Mar 2017, 6:27 am
Raleigh wrote:
You seem perfectly understandable to me.
You must be an imposter!
You must be an imposter!
Thanks
No, No imposter, just some fellow trying to navigate the maze of life
05 Mar 2017, 6:51 am
Raleigh,
The first concert I ever saw was midnight oil.
It was at the local footy field way back in the eightees.
I've only been to two concerts. 
05 Mar 2017, 7:30 am
6 pm there will be strangers in my current (rented) apartment. My landlord is showing the place to people who are interested in renting it.
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh... 
05 Mar 2017, 7:48 am
Froya wrote:
6 pm there will be strangers in my current (rented) apartment. My landlord is showing the place to people who are interested in renting it.
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh...
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh...
Are you moving Froya?
05 Mar 2017, 8:38 am
Uncle wrote:
Froya wrote:
6 pm there will be strangers in my current (rented) apartment. My landlord is showing the place to people who are interested in renting it.
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh...
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh...
Are you moving Froya?
Yes. I have bought a small apartment
The final move date is Friday 24 March.
Do you own your home, or do you rent?
05 Mar 2017, 9:13 am
Froya wrote:
Uncle wrote:
Froya wrote:
6 pm there will be strangers in my current (rented) apartment. My landlord is showing the place to people who are interested in renting it.
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh...
What if they ask me if I have been satisfied with living here..... Eh...
Are you moving Froya?
Yes. I have bought a small apartment
The final move date is Friday 24 March.
Do you own your home, or do you rent?
Awesome!
I sold my house 2 years ago and rent at the moment.
05 Mar 2017, 9:22 am
Uncle wrote:
Awesome!
I sold my house 2 years ago and rent at the moment.
I sold my house 2 years ago and rent at the moment.
Ok. There is much work with owning a house. Is that why you have chosen to rent instead?
I can feel the responsability with owning an apartment very well. I like to feel free, and owning as little stuff as possible, so bying an apartment is a big step in the other direction.
At the same time it's so frustrating to pay a landlord. I also had saved up a lot of money, so I had to put them to use somehow.
05 Mar 2017, 9:36 am
05 Mar 2017, 9:47 am
Froya wrote:
Uncle wrote:
Awesome!
I sold my house 2 years ago and rent at the moment.
I sold my house 2 years ago and rent at the moment.
Ok. There is much work with owning a house. Is that why you have chosen to rent instead?
I can feel the responsability with owning an apartment very well. I like to feel free, and owning as little stuff as possible, so bying an apartment is a big step in the other direction.
At the same time it's so frustrating to pay a landlord. I also had saved up a lot of money, so I had to put them to use somehow.
There were a number of combined factors that were involved. It wasn't down to a singular reason.
I share with three others and we are all very quiet, so works out quit well and its a big house. Spend most of my time in my room.
I finally have a group of housemates that generally gets the rent in to account on time
So a little less stress. Well, done for saving up
and bet your really happy having a place you really can call yours
05 Mar 2017, 9:56 am
Uncle wrote:
There were a number of combined factors that were involved. It wasn't down to a singular reason.
I share with three others and we are all very quiet, so works out quit well and its a big house. Spend most of my time in my room.
I finally have a group of housemates that generally gets the rent in to account on time So a little less stress.
Well, dont for saving up and bet your really happy having a place you really can call yours
I share with three others and we are all very quiet, so works out quit well and its a big house. Spend most of my time in my room.
I finally have a group of housemates that generally gets the rent in to account on time
So a little less stress. Well, dont for saving up
and bet your really happy having a place you really can call yours Yes, if I can relax and let go of the fears of everything that can go wrong
Do you get any socialization with your house mates? Do you feel less lonely..?
I don't think I could have lived like that. I will probably get into conflicts with my upcomming neighbours
You sound pleased with it though
05 Mar 2017, 10:17 am
Raleigh wrote:
^ hear, hear!
There's an owl in my front garden.
I'm trying to work out if this is a good or a bad omen.
There's an owl in my front garden.
I'm trying to work out if this is a good or a bad omen.
Aliens, duh.
05 Mar 2017, 10:19 am
05 Mar 2017, 10:23 am
Froya wrote:
Uncle wrote:
There were a number of combined factors that were involved. It wasn't down to a singular reason.
I share with three others and we are all very quiet, so works out quit well and its a big house. Spend most of my time in my room.
I finally have a group of housemates that generally gets the rent in to account on time So a little less stress.
Well, dont for saving up and bet your really happy having a place you really can call yours
I share with three others and we are all very quiet, so works out quit well and its a big house. Spend most of my time in my room.
I finally have a group of housemates that generally gets the rent in to account on time
So a little less stress. Well, dont for saving up
and bet your really happy having a place you really can call yours Yes, if I can relax and let go of the fears of everything that can go wrong
Do you get any socialization with your house mates? Do you feel less lonely..?
I don't think I could have lived like that. I will probably get into conflicts with my upcomming neighbours
You sound pleased with it though
Its bitter sweet
We are not a social crew actually i would say we are all neurodiverse in our own individual way, so rarely any visitors and as i live on the upper floor i dont hear the door nor answer it, If i do hear it i know its pretty much not for me.. I did like my own place to a point. I was going through a rough long patch and totally closed myself off, including curtains, Totally froze if i heard someone at the door... I get social exposure now but its minimal...
My neighbours are cool, have a 90 year old fella next door, really nice chap and help him out now and again and barely hear anything from the others...
I have a nice view from the deck as pith this pic of the moonrise:
and one of our local sunsets:
So having a few good housemates with that view i think i can cope with the trade off
05 Mar 2017, 10:43 am
Uncle wrote:
Its bitter sweet We are not a social crew actually i would say we are all neurodiverse in our own individual way, so rarely any visitors and as i live on the upper floor i dont hear the door nor answer it, If i do hear it i know its pretty much not for me..
I did like my own place to a point. I was going through a rough long patch and totally closed myself off, including curtains, Totally froze if i heard someone at the door... I get social exposure now but its minimal...
My neighbours are cool, have a 90 year old fella next door, really nice chap and help him out now and again and barely hear anything from the others...
I have a nice view from the deck as pith this pic of the moonrise:
and one of our local sunsets:
So having a few good housemates with that view i think i can cope with the trade off
We are not a social crew actually i would say we are all neurodiverse in our own individual way, so rarely any visitors and as i live on the upper floor i dont hear the door nor answer it, If i do hear it i know its pretty much not for me.. I did like my own place to a point. I was going through a rough long patch and totally closed myself off, including curtains, Totally froze if i heard someone at the door... I get social exposure now but its minimal...
My neighbours are cool, have a 90 year old fella next door, really nice chap and help him out now and again and barely hear anything from the others...
I have a nice view from the deck as pith this pic of the moonrise:
and one of our local sunsets:
So having a few good housemates with that view i think i can cope with the trade off
Wow... That is a beautiful view!
Sounds like you are at a much healthier place socially now. You can't isolate when you live with people like that. Your brave for breaking out of that vicious cycle..
I also tend to isolate. I don't want to get "close" with my closest neighbours. I'm too unstable. One day I might be in a good mood and feel chatty, then the next I don't want to see anyone.
