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05 Mar 2017, 11:57 am

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Who ever said that love is remotely logical? :lol:



Haha, you are absolutely right there! probably the most illogical of emotions... Must choose my words a little more wisely! hehe

But also to be in love with someone and to go out with them is generally under the CONDITION that the feelings are mutual. So i see both sides of the argument as there is truth in both... If that made any sense? lol



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05 Mar 2017, 11:58 am

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^^^Well, I just caught a bit on the previous pages about Dcj ranting about how love is conditional. Conditional love is not truly love.


Yeah I wasn't in a good mood sorry,

But I still feel that way and if what you say is true then no loves me anyway,

Also unrelated, can mod_alias get anymore F-ing complex in apache?

http://httpd.apache.org/docs/2.4/mod/mod_alias.html

Does that look complicated? Am I having a brain fart? All I want to do is rename a directory in apache's URL for crying out loud 8O



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05 Mar 2017, 12:03 pm

dcj123 wrote:
Kuraudo7777 wrote:
^^^Well, I just caught a bit on the previous pages about Dcj ranting about how love is conditional. Conditional love is not truly love.


Yeah I wasn't in a good mood sorry,

But I still feel that way and if what you say is true then no loves me anyway,

Also unrelated, can mod_alias get anymore F-ing complex in apache?

http://httpd.apache.org/docs/2.4/mod/mod_alias.html

Does that look complicated? Am I having a brain fart? All I want to do is rename a directory in apache's URL for crying out loud 8O



From memory they made a mess of an apache update sometime ago. Some of the generic codes were altered, ie <> was removed from some lines, effectively making the updates a blooming nightmare!



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05 Mar 2017, 12:04 pm

Dcj: I love you. I can love you unconditionally just as easily as I can love every being in the cosmos unconditionally: through silent divinity. :heart:


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05 Mar 2017, 12:13 pm

Don't love me, I am low life scum and quite proud of it 8)

All those drugs and all that thieving didn't do themselves, its not easy to to be the kind of scum I am 8O

I should get more for the effort :evil:



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05 Mar 2017, 12:14 pm

I have reached QA status, I no longer care and everything is funny 8)



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05 Mar 2017, 12:16 pm

^^I can love you regardless of who you are.


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05 Mar 2017, 12:26 pm

Ok, i think i need to try to get a little sleep. 6.25am here ... Night all :)



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05 Mar 2017, 12:36 pm

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Ok, i think i need to try to get a little sleep. 6.25am here ... Night all :)


Goodnight :jester:



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05 Mar 2017, 12:40 pm

Welp, I went to sleep and now I'm late to the party and I'm wondering it I can quote things from lat night without being looked at weird.


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05 Mar 2017, 12:41 pm

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I have reached QA status, I no longer care and everything is funny 8)

You live for yourself now - that's a sign of self preservation
You have understood that your parents have/and still do hurt you - that is understanding that other people have blame too.
You have felt deep anger towards your parents - that is healty! Instead of taking out that anger on yourself.
You have cut contact with some unhealthy people in your life - that is a sign of self protection



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05 Mar 2017, 12:43 pm

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Welp, I went to sleep and now I'm late to the party and I'm wondering it I can quote things from lat night without being looked at weird.

Of course you can! You can quote things from several years back if you ask me :)



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05 Mar 2017, 12:53 pm

Anne and her husband has a great relationship. Several years back Anne told him that he either had to stop the drinking or she would leave. (He became verbaly abusive towards her when he was drunk) He stopped the drinking! Do you think this is conditional love on Annes part?



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05 Mar 2017, 12:59 pm

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Anne and her husband has a great relationship. Several years back Anne told him that he either had to stop the drinking or she would leave. (He became verbaly abusive towards her when he was drunk) He stopped the drinking! Do you think this is conditional love on Annes part?


That's not an example of conditional love, that's an example of a conditional relationship.

If Anne's husband had carried on drinking, she would have left him. That was the condition she applied to their relationship.
But she might still have loved him, and had love for him, after they had separated. You can't switch love on and off with conditions.



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05 Mar 2017, 1:04 pm

yup, you can love someone and refuse to let them hurt you.


uncle, if i had that view i would think i was in heaven.



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05 Mar 2017, 1:10 pm

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Froya wrote:
Anne and her husband has a great relationship. Several years back Anne told him that he either had to stop the drinking or she would leave. (He became verbaly abusive towards her when he was drunk) He stopped the drinking! Do you think this is conditional love on Annes part?


That's not an example of conditional love, that's an example of a conditional relationship.

If Anne's husband had carried on drinking, she would have left him. That was the condition she applied to their relationship.
But she might still have loved him, and had love for him, after they had separated. You can't switch love on and off with conditions.

That's very wise. It makes sense to me.

I love my brother though I know he has done despicable things. I'm pretty sure he has taken someones life.. However I have started to feel less motivated to give to him, because he gives so little back. He doesn't really want contact. I'm always the one that takes the initiative to contact. Then he says he is busy and will call me back, have only called back once. I have always gratulated him on his birthday, BUT not last year. I have started to feel less motivated to give to him.. :( I don't think my love for him has died, but maybe chilled.