Post something that made you UNHAPPY today.

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I'm glad a guy is noticing it and bothered by it. If they hate women (which is sexist, it's an entire sex, if they stop thinking in stereotypes they'll find a woman in their life they do like even if they don't want her) and are straight, they shouldn't date.

I think it's partly because they have overly high visual standards for who they want. 'Bimbos' (to use a sexist phrase) will only want 'Chads' (to use an anti male sexist phrase for balance).

My cousin has a live in boyfriend. She's fairly pretty but normal looking, he's fairly handsome but normal looking. Too much porn/not enough time around normal people will change standards. That's why despite being technically bi, I call myself lesbian, because my standards for a pretty boy are too high for most normal blokes to fulfil.

I haven't dated a woman in years. Not because I dislike women but because I dislike the experience of being in relationships. I don't know if you (personally) want a boyfriend or have one or what but that's my advice for everyone. Learn to be ok with being single, learn who you are, then go for someone of the right sex who isn't necessarily a stereotype. Because opposites don't always attract (for straights) and sometimes butches like butches/masc4masc (for gays). Be content with their looks, don't date anyone you actively find ugly, but not obsessed with perfection.

Also, if he's under 25, autistic and a virgin that doesn't make him special. Patriarchy and bullying probably makes him feel that way that's all. And boys who lie about losing their virginity while still at secondary school. (Unlikely) If someone is about 40, has sexual urges and is a virgin, I do feel sorry for them though.

There was a 15 yo school shooter or stabber or something I read about who was an 'incel'. At that age, he should be a virgin! The kids who weren't, there's a chance one of them had been abused.

There's also a thread on the adult section about a kid who's just turning 15 and who a girl wants to give a BJ to, an autistic kid. The girl is only in her late teens but still. I think it's messed up. They think 'lucky guy'. Yes, I wanted sex at that age, but looking back at it the limited sexual experience I did have in my early teens was a really bad/grey area consent wise experience.

My IQ massively varies. If I'm tested on dyspraxic stuff I have an IQ of 70. My verbal IQ is something like 145. I've only ever tested online or on that show they had on TV, not an official one.

Anyway, I'm upset cos shops don't stock marzipan at Christmas time.

Bad drivers.

The dread of probably having to go to my parents' house again to stay for a week or two depending.

It's only lurking at the back of my mind but a certain person...
It's weird how some people can follow you through your conscious all your life.

cecilfinkelstein,

I agree! Some of the drivers here are crazy. They scare me at times. However, I won't let that keep me at home. I don't want to miss out on my life because I'm scared. I just have to be extra cautious.

Someone called me "she" instead of "he"

My head looks like a woman now

that the MAGAs are still lording it over us with sadistic glee.

The precious lil "person" waited until after I finished eating, to bring back cheap s**t


"Joong", pears, apple, orange,

A couple of dollars

And I ended up going (+3b)(3v)

f**k that dickwad! It acts like it had to stay dragons to get the cheap s**t.

It acts like it is the latest greatest thing since sliced bread

It gets back whenever it wants, with anything or nothing.

This has to stop

f**k that ass hole! It acts like it was doing me a favor too




The dojo was cold. Itchy like f**k

Being at my parents' house.
I haven't heard from the baby's dad for almost three days.
He's probably busy but still.

My stepdad is always grumpy and picking arguments every birthday or Christmas except his own birthday.
This time around he wants to have the microwave I gave him back because he took all the things mum put in the fridge or the cupboard which could possibly be frozen and froze them.
There are two supermarkets down the street and she's on holiday (she's a teacher so that's two weeks off). Nothing needs to be frozen.
I'm a bit of a hypocrite cos I use their freezer (he won't let me get a freezer or a fridge. My place is cold enough anyway that fridges are unnecessary but frozen stuff melts too much) but the difference is they let me. I offered to microwave their stuff but by then it was too late.
Mum never wanted all that stuff frozen. She was wanting to go down the street and buy food because it's a nice walk out.
He said 'well sometimes you kept stuff in the fridge for ages in the old house'. That's because he used to push things right to the back if they weren't his and because you had to lie down to get into the fridge there.
It's all probably a bit minor but I don't like the fact he has these niggles every bloody year and everyone else's birthday and the attention is always on him.

I feel like I'm going to be debating demographic politics with people forever even though I publicly stated I was through debating it, especially online. We can't escape our own experiences except through theory of mind and actively listening to other people, which nobody, NT or aspie or whatever, does. We ought to have at least the choice to disengage from debating such politics. I've been talking about this stuff since I was 13. I don't get convinced by people outside my demographics and vice versa.

I like philosophy. I like discussing ethics, like the train track debate. These things you can go back and forth on. But demographic politics is very entrenched, is how I see it.

Very true! I have been going out a lot lately. It has been nice. i just don't like the drivers in my city.

Now he's saying he has all the positive traits and none of the negative traits of autism and denying stuff he's done in the past.
It's really irritating.
Our first Boxing Day, he watched cricket all day after inviting mum over. She isn't a cricket fan...

I'm not enough for these people.

My family arrives tomorrow and then I open my presents. I just have to wait which is hard for me.

This year, while not a complete loss, was very stressful in terms of health worries for family and friends.

I have given up on the notion that next year will be "the year it all comes together." However, that doesn't mean I won't seek out new ideas for improvement as they present themselves. I have to wait (and listen) for ideas.

The thought of being here, in my parents' house. I've been ready to leave for months. (Almost out<--- I think that'll make me happy.)

Being without my baby's father right now.

He doesn't want to get back in the relationship yet when I told him I'm ready to be in one again. He wants to start over, from what I can tell, as friends.

I'm not okay with that uncertainty of us being able to be together or not. I guess it'll end when he finally makes a decision.

Plus, if he leaves. I don't want to share the child. He didn't want him in the beginning anyway.
I think it'd be better if he let us go if he doesn't want to be with me.