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IsabellaLinton
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23 Jan 2019, 11:58 am

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Someone called me and said that my İnternet bill will automatically rise this year if i don't change my İnternet distributor. (idk if i explained right) I was so tired and in the middle of something, also She talked too Fast and said too much so it didn't came to my mind that she might be making it up. I hate how gullible i am. I am scared in my own house now. And the Worst thing is Police here just goes "meh" at these kind of things! Idk what to do..


Did you call your normal internet provider to ensure you still want their service? You can tell them there is a scammer out there trying to take their business. They can look into it for you. The new company has no way to bill you for their service without your banking info or a written contract.


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23 Jan 2019, 12:00 pm

Your old service will make sure the new service doesn't "intrude" upon the old service.

As long as you didn't give your banking information, you're all right.



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23 Jan 2019, 12:14 pm

Thank you guys, i didn't give them the banking info and called my current service to make sure it wasn't them who called me. I'm just scared that some random scammer knows my address now but this is my fault ffor being stupid and careless i guess



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23 Jan 2019, 12:19 pm

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Thank you guys, i didn't give them the banking info and called my current service to make sure it wasn't them who called me. I'm just scared that some random scammer knows my address now but this is my fault ffor being stupid and careless i guess


I got scammed once for tickets to a concert gig that I bought online. I fell for it hook, line and sinker. I lost a lot of money. I involved police etc., but there was nothing they could do. Don't feel badly. They're the creeps, not you. Anyone can know any address these days with Google. The only thing they gained from you is your name, in relation to your address. If they don't know your birthdate or banking info they can't do anything with it.


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23 Jan 2019, 12:51 pm

Thanks Isabella. I'm sorry it happened to you too.



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23 Jan 2019, 1:38 pm

I'm getting very depressed and hurt.
I'm trying my hardest. I'm running out of steam.



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23 Jan 2019, 1:42 pm

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I'm getting very depressed and hurt.
I'm trying my hardest. I'm running out of steam.


Hugs to you.

As your little one grows you'll have such a strong love with him, there'll be no looking back.


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23 Jan 2019, 1:48 pm

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I'm getting very depressed and hurt.
I'm trying my hardest. I'm running out of steam.


Our first had colic. The most exhausted I've been in my life were the times when our kids were newborns and I played a very active role in helping my wife nurture them. One thing both of us said reflecting back is that when we were "in it" (e.g. the colic), it seemed like it would never end. Neither of us could perceive a "light at the end of the tunnel". We could only focus on how exhausted, hopeless and helpless we felt. We realized after that with our other kids that it gets better and that you have to take help where you can and get sleep, even micro-naps any and all chances you can get. When not caring for our newborns, our primary goal, bar none, was sleep for ourselves.

Do you have anyone that can help you get some rest?



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23 Jan 2019, 6:38 pm

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caThar4G wrote:
I'm getting very depressed and hurt.
I'm trying my hardest. I'm running out of steam.


Our first had colic. The most exhausted I've been in my life were the times when our kids were newborns and I played a very active role in helping my wife nurture them. One thing both of us said reflecting back is that when we were "in it" (e.g. the colic), it seemed like it would never end. Neither of us could perceive a "light at the end of the tunnel". We could only focus on how exhausted, hopeless and helpless we felt. We realized after that with our other kids that it gets better and that you have to take help where you can and get sleep, even micro-naps any and all chances you can get. When not caring for our newborns, our primary goal, bar none, was sleep for ourselves.

Do you have anyone that can help you get some rest?


Thanks, both of you.
Sadly, the father is not around, and apparently talking with him just makes me depressed.
My mother can only come once a week.
I don't know of anyone else who would yet.
A part of loosing my steam, is there's an alarm that's been going off for hours in my left neighbor's apartment for days. The good: it's not so loud that I can't block it out with a fan on low, and i can't hear it in my room or bathroom. The bad: it's on for most of the day except the wee hours of morning and late at night, so I have to keep the fan on if i don't want to get even more irritated.
Today the maintenance man said the manager is trying to contact this neighbor to get permission to turn it off (it's not a smoke alarm). They've been gone. I left a note on the door.
I hope they come back soon. This is really affecting me and my routines and composure. Is there anything else I could do for now? If they don't come back soon, I may have to do something else, if i can.



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23 Jan 2019, 6:52 pm

caThar4G wrote:
Magna wrote:
caThar4G wrote:
I'm getting very depressed and hurt.
I'm trying my hardest. I'm running out of steam.


Our first had colic. The most exhausted I've been in my life were the times when our kids were newborns and I played a very active role in helping my wife nurture them. One thing both of us said reflecting back is that when we were "in it" (e.g. the colic), it seemed like it would never end. Neither of us could perceive a "light at the end of the tunnel". We could only focus on how exhausted, hopeless and helpless we felt. We realized after that with our other kids that it gets better and that you have to take help where you can and get sleep, even micro-naps any and all chances you can get. When not caring for our newborns, our primary goal, bar none, was sleep for ourselves.

Do you have anyone that can help you get some rest?


Thanks, both of you.
Sadly, the father is not around, and apparently talking with him just makes me depressed.
My mother can only come once a week.
I don't know of anyone else who would yet.
A part of loosing my steam, is there's an alarm that's been going off for hours in my left neighbor's apartment for days. The good: it's not so loud that I can't block it out with a fan on low, and i can't hear it in my room or bathroom. The bad: it's on for most of the day except the wee hours of morning and late at night, so I have to keep the fan on if i don't want to get even more irritated.
Today the maintenance man said the manager is trying to contact this neighbor to get permission to turn it off (it's not a smoke alarm). They've been gone. I left a note on the door.
I hope they come back soon. This is really affecting me and my routines and composure. Is there anything else I could do for now? If they don't come back soon, I may have to do something else, if i can.


All I can suggest regarding the noise is to wear earplugs that you can buy inexpensively at a pharmacy, and to keep complaining to the manager. Between your ASD status (sensitive to sounds) and the fact you have a newborn you should be given priority :( Focus on your baby and develop as many routines as you can. With my nephew we had bath time, infant massage time (with almond oil -- very nice), music time, story time, exercise time (just moving his arms and legs), outdoor time, nap time, etc. The more you can schedule your day the less scary your time will feel. Don't worry if things don't happen "on a schedule" but try to have those different elements in your day. :heart:


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23 Jan 2019, 8:52 pm

Nausea and tired


The cashier squeaked "yes?" At me abruptly, like I was going to Petty larceny

But I mad a purchase


It's just a gas station and there are plenty nearby


Ain't going back



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24 Jan 2019, 1:58 am

I've been conned before April. This was over 6 years ago. Someone called me while I was sleeping claiming to be from Verizon(I have wireless service with them) & they wanted me to verify some information for some reason I don't remember. Stupid me gave them the info & a while latter my phone quit working. I called Verizon & the scammer activated my account on a different phone & ran up a bunch of international calls. Verizon rep told me the calls will be removed from my bill but they were still there when I got my bill & I had to call again to get them removed. I ended up demanding a credit for my hassle & got one.
I have a habit now of NEVER answering my phone unless the number is already programed in or I'm expecting a call which I never am. Most of the calls I get that are non programed numbers or either political or online pharmacies trying to sell me Viagra.


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24 Jan 2019, 8:54 am

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24 Jan 2019, 8:32 pm

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25 Jan 2019, 9:52 am

^same. I started trembling all of a sudden when i was out with friends. They'll probably never call me again bc of this and i'm trying to prepare myself emotionally.