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I hate to say, but if you establish paternity there is a chance he will fight for custody so that he won't have to pay you any support. He might want to raise your son and have you pay him. It's a fine line to walk. If you don't do the paternity test, at least he can't try to take your son away.

Keep any evidence that you have so far, showing him denying paternity and not wanting to pay.

Then, considering he doesn't want to help you raise your baby (and he's said so), cut ties.

I have a lab on Thursday afternoons. I have a break in my schedule before it to come back to my dorm. I typically take a nap (I take a nap every afternoon) I fell asleep reading and didnt set an alarm. I missed lab. Lab is the one class I am not supposed to miss. It cannot be made up and is a large part of our grade. My mother is going to Kill. Me

How would your mother know? ^

I'm unhappy today is almost over. It was a nice day.

Ohhhhh, and I'm upset about Ozzy being in the hospital.

Because I'll have to tell her? And even if I didnt, she'd see the grade. And this might affect my overall grade. If I dont get a 4.0 this semester Im gonna be in huge trouble with my parents

If you are over 18, you are an adult and she has no right to see your grades.
I'm sorry you feel obligated to share that information.

Some idiot had the nerve to call me "Asian boy!"



Whatever he was going to do or say, it was not going to "help" me. So ignored him. Not worth the effort. rude


Saw Amy Lee b***h . She had a dog and she was flapping her stupid ass trap on the phone. Extroverts are like that. They rule the world. But there is nothing she does significantly better than me. Dewey decimal system. Theory of Multiple Intelligences. Emotional, social. She just happens to be in the majority. Most dipshits look, sound and act just like Amy Lee b***h. She did not appear to have seen me. She is so f*****g judgmental. "Cool" this , "mad" that, "why" this "sucks" that. Like everything is for her to say.


Saw sister at trader Joe's. She did not appear to have seen me


Starbucks

Winter making my arthritis,joints & my ankle/leg hurt sooo much. Why people have to call me ‘Laura’ it is Lara.

I stayed up & waited around all yesterday morning for a package to come by FedEx that didn't. My girlfriend had ordered it & checked the tracking before she went to bed & the site she ordered from & FedEx both gave yesterday as the delivery date but FedEx's site said there was an exception due to weather but the weather wasn't bad here & it still gave yesterday as the delivery date. It didn't come & hadn't had a tracking update sense the day before but tracking still said yesterday's date all day. Last night they finally changed it to delivery date unknown. The package made it to the final hub early this morning but tracking still says delivery date is unknown even thou it's soo likely to be out for delivery in a bit that I would max out my credit cards betting on it. FedEx's tracking system really sux.

Back pain.

People say that a lot. I have no clue what being 18 has to do with anything tho. Nothing changed from when I was 17. My parents are still my parents....

For today: My mom vetoed all my potential spring break plans. <sigh>

They're still your parents but you are now their ADULT child. I didn't show my parents any of my grades. I made good grades, but still they took my word for it and never once asked for "proof". I'd tell them to call your school's records department to inquire about your grades, if they want to know your achievement. They'll be refused access, and the reason will be explained to them. I know it's hard for you (standing up for yourself), but your parents do seem to put a LOT of pressure on you and that isn't good for your mental health. Cultural norms don't matter.

When you turned 18, a lot of things changed for you legally but they are ignoring this fact.

My career choice to study literature-math instead of stem cost me a job.

That stupidtrons have managed to do a great deal of harm unto all citizens

My mother has direct access to my account where she can check my grades herself. She has a notebook with the passwords to any account I have for everything from my phone, to my email, to random online games I did when I was 10 lol.

I know Im technically a legal adult, but that really doesnt mean much other than being able to vote and the possibility of jury duty. They still pay for my education, insurance, phone, car, horse, health care, etc. So....they have the potential to leave me homeless without a phone or car or anything because everything I own they technically bought for me. My mother is in charge of my bank account, so I wouldnt have money either because Im only allowed to keep certain amounts of cash on me. Until I graduate college and move out, I am still under their control. The whole "Im the parent, you're the child" and "You live under my house, you follow my rules". (Tho lets be honest- my brother lives on his own and has his own job and he still has to respect my parents rules as well)
Besides, why argue with them over something as simple as grades? I know what happens when I get a bad grade, its nothing new.

Horrible landlords actually a long line of them gradually wearing me down and the prospect of looking for the next one is depressing.

You could change your passwords, or log in to your school account and deny her access. At age 18 you can now approve which people have access to your school records. I know you have a lot of pressure from your parents and I feel badly for you because you are such a good student and so conscientious on your own. Adding that extra layer of pressure from them seems harmful, psychologically. I hope a school counsellor might be able to help you determine new boundaries.