nick007 wrote:
Taupey wrote:
nick007 wrote:
Delirium wrote:
nick007 wrote:
Why the hell would I listen to feminist music if I was really was a misogynist
I've gotten a PM from someone calling me one
Because of this post you made:
Quote:
I hate the
Ke$ha song
Grow a Pair. I'm a sensitive guy myself. I'm seldom offended by songs thou but I think this makes her look like a total uncaring b!tch. She wines & b!tches a lot. What a f#*king hypocrite. She needs to be with a guy who b!tch slaps her
Wishing that a woman would be abused by her partner is misogynistic.
It's not misogynistic if the women likes the abuse & i was being sarcastic
Nick, I just want to say no one likes to be abused male or female. Abusive situations are often hard to get out of for many reason I won't list right now. Just because a woman stays in an abusive situations doesn't mean she likes it. It means she has no confidence in herself because she's been convienced she's can't do anything, she's nothing but a failure, she can't make it on her own, etc... We all make mistakes and sometimes say the wrong things or we say something jokingly but other's didn't realize that was the deal. You still have a lot of great things about you and I'm not going to hold the fact that you're a human being against you. Maybe next time add this to your comment (I'm kidding) or something similar so everyone will know for sure if you're joking or not. Have a great night.
Women may not like abuse but some are attracted to it. I've known more than a few women who are only attracted to abusive guys & have zero interest in any guy who actually respects em.
Saying I'm kidding is great advice & I'm kinda mad at myself for not thinking of that. It might could of spared me some dram on other forums years ago; well it probably wouldn't of helped much at all but at least I would of had a disclaimer to fall back on. I'm going to let this drop now & Thanx
They aren't attracted to the abuse, that's all that they have ever known and they think it's the norm when it's not. They were abused as children and they probably watched their mothers being abused while they were growing up. They aren't attracted to the abuse, the examples of the type of man to choose to be with, have been all wrong, They have been taught wrong. Again they have had very bad examples on what type of man to choose and they won't choose the right type of man until they learn differently (which takes time) and use their free will to choose differently. And some women never learn this. It's not as easy as you think it is. You shouldn't put ALL the blame on women like that, it's not just or right, it is sexist. Maybe you have also been taught wrong and maybe this will take a while for you to learn as well, if you ever do.
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