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31 Dec 2018, 3:25 pm

Get outta my house!



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31 Dec 2018, 6:04 pm

you're one of my best potential friends on the job, and for exactly that reason I get disappointed in you.

If you were that clueless, even on your first day on the job, I would have considered you "common sense impaired", and "dumb as brick".

But you have been at this job for fifteen plus years. If that thing STILL surprises you, and if you STILL get emotional about it after all of this time then you're a 100 times as a dumb as a brick. It as if you were getting upset about the sun setting every night (and didn't realize that sun just does that every twenty four hours. There's a pattern).

Get a grip.

Be a leader. Set an example to your subordinates. Don't encourage them to be emotionally unstable (like you) about that thing that I haven't given a second thought to in fifteen years.



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31 Dec 2018, 8:01 pm

So, it has come to this. A showdown. Mano a mano. You and me.

There are a few things you may have forgotten or ignored.

1. I've been 20+ years with the company.
2. My archives are deep and detailed.
3. My lawyers are on speed-dial.
4. I've won bigger challenges from lesser men.
5. You have a police record.

It's your move, compadre ... make it a good one.



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28 Feb 2019, 9:27 am

Have you ever considered the idea that we keep you around just to be able to say,

"I may not be perfect, but at least I'm a better person than he can ever hope to be!"

?



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28 Feb 2019, 11:21 am

A candle will burn for you forever, my beloved niece, taken from us a few weeks ago at only 34. May you find the peace in Heaven you never found on Earth.


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28 Feb 2019, 11:27 pm

Hi grandma!



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02 Mar 2019, 12:45 pm

I know who you are, and I saw what you did.
You're not a victim. You brought it on yourself.



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02 Mar 2019, 1:45 pm

I hope you're better by Wednesday.



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02 Mar 2019, 2:23 pm

You cut me out of your life, something I would not have done to you even if you had murdered someone. If you

had joined Isis, I would still have considered you my sister. I would have visited you in prison, sent you Birthday

and Christmas cards, still loved you and above all accepted you for the person you are. You cut me out of your

life, slammed the phone down, canceled my Birthday without telling me, leaving me to spend it alone, and ignored

my attempts at reconciliation in the following weeks ALL BECAUSE I MADE ONE MILDLY SARCASTIC COMMENT

ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND, he wasn't even in the room. What I said wasn't even mean, IT WAS FUNNY! The real

reason is you never forgave me for being born. Well, it's been four years and two months and what I want to say

most is thank you. I would never have cut you out, I would never have thought I could survive without you, but I

have. First there was the grief, the feelings of worthlessness and shame. How terrible a person must be to be cut

out by their only sibling. Then at six months came the first tingling feelings of freedom, nobody judging, nobody

pointing out my lack of feeling, my lack of thinking of others, my lack of f*****g everything. But at eighteen

months I questioned whether I should perhaps I should attempt a reconciliation and so I sat down and thought

about all the sacrifices you had made for me, and the things that took effort you had done for me, and I could

not think of ONE f*****g EXAMPLE! I had put myself out and made sacrifices over and over and I'd never

weighed any of it up. Because I trusted you. Because I loved you. I was an idiot. And bit by bit I relised how

nasty the things you had said to me over the years were, and how I'd just accepted because you were my guide

to normal. From 'your an Asperger, that's why you don't have any feelings' to 'If you have children and you are

OCD around them, I will call social services because it's child abuse' and letting your boyfriend who didn't even

know me lecture me twice on what a bad sister/friend I was, and saying how I didn't know how to feel, for half

and hour. So I am saying thank you for dumping me because I am so much better without you in my life, and

thank you also for being such a good example of bitterness that I have worked very hard at not letting your

dumping me make me bitter too.

PS you were right, I am an Aspie, you could have helped me, instead you told me the worst things about being

Asperger and I believed you.



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02 Mar 2019, 2:57 pm

^ that's eerily close to some of my experiences although I wasn't on the receiving end except for "lecture me twice on what a bad sister/friend I was, and saying how I didn't know how to feel, for half and hour". It would appear to me that these people have a personality disorder as they act in a similar way.

Anyhoo I hope you feel better getting that off your chest and good for staying strong and not giving in to their bitterness ( it's not easy ) , people say cut toxic people out of your life but that's incredibly difficult when they are blood.


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02 Mar 2019, 4:42 pm

^Thank Ferris. I only planned on that being one sentence but it all came out. Very cathartic.



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03 Mar 2019, 1:49 pm

Though you have left my life, you will never leave my heart.


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03 Mar 2019, 2:24 pm

I saw what you wrote and it made me smile.

Streets were empty that day but we move on. Deliberately writing this in English an in acronym (so nobody at all can understand) - OTWC. Translate it and you know what I mean. If you take politics out, I can even say OTWC soon.

I love your energy in all things.

Not even sure 100% what I need to tell you but if you ask, I'll answer...



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03 Mar 2019, 8:27 pm

Rolando

You keep misprouncing my name and pronoun

Your patronizing compliments make me wonder if you think I am intellectually challenged


Seriously though I suspect your IQ score is lower than mine

Get it measured, ass hole

After you touch me I get itchy


Allergic reaction



f**k you



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04 Mar 2019, 4:59 pm

We gave you a good send off. I know you were looking down at us with approval.


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04 Mar 2019, 5:08 pm

No words can express my sadness for your grief.

:(