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After mister redelings, I feel like I can't trust nobody s**t

Splitting fine hairs

thus far
to me
it appears that

You do not know what someone else is going to do because you are not precognitive or telepathic

That's why I hate it when someone says someone is a "good person"

Some of the kindest, smartest. Most psychologically normal precious lil "people" I have ever interacted with were homophobic

Example, mister redelings

Everyone has flaws

If it looks too good to be true, it might be

You can't measure flaws

What is a flaw, is subjective

Especially if "most people" have that flaw

You do not know what someone else did, because you are not a stalkers

"You do not look like you would hrrt anyone". Previous counselor told me. stupid b***h





Every interaction helps, neither, or hrrts. You can't guarantee just the first two

The recipient can claim anything "hrrts".

In 35 years, it is not possible to not hrrt anyone

Pollution
Animal Rights
Sweatshop


Plenty of people do not look like they would hrrt anyone. And they do

Mister redelings had much more friends than me. Not many people would say he is not kind. He is a kind homophobic precious lil "person"

That is not an oxymoron

f**k that ass hole

Situational versus dispositional

Usually when someone says someone is "a good person", it's to :

manipulate someone into doing something

get a "thank you" for the judgment

downplay or excuse something bad they did


"Trust versus mistrust"

I had a dream about my Grade 7 music teacher last night. Him and my dad were good friends in that dream.

Art

No clinic hours at weekends??? Sigh...

Other than straining my eyes and my hands after a long walk, I'm waiting for the hang dry laundry to get dry under the humid weather.

Now that I thought about it, I haven't seen the sun the entire day...

Gained Number Post Count (1).
Lose Time (n).

Lose more time here - Updates at least once a week.

That I can improve internet performance at my home unless, I had a greater amount of bandwith, but seeing as how I'm going to be moving in the next 12mos, I'm not in favor of upping anything when there is already service contract..

hurt, anguish

Unjustice

Why is so #@$%ing difficult to communicate with people...with the spoken word. Written communication is, I think, much simpler and less likely to be botched.

Bananas!

I admit to at times pretend to be naive-ish to get by..

Sometimes, I wish I could just go in a silent room and just chill. Looking at my phone, or staring at the ceiling just thinking about things, or something. A friend that would like to hang out and do the same would be cool as well.

The day I can have silence...

I also wonder what Dragonsanddemons is up to. She hasn't been on in a bit, wonder if she decided to take a break from WP or something?

Mine is on my cousin. He has schizophrenia. Hes having a rough time. Hes at my house. He has started sleepwalking and peeing in random places. He also talks alot. I just think about him.

Victorian death rituals. Why not.

One of numerous problems inherent to counseling is that

"Actions speak louder than words". But the counselors job is to sit around flapping her stupid ass trap

The counselor has to give advice or sympathy . not much alternative

(Question, self disclosure, or insightful statements have their place. But usually that's just part of the process, not the end point)

Sympathy is much easier to give.

But if they give too little sympathy, the client keep complaining

Too much, and it's like, adrenal fatigue

You cant measure the correct amount of sympathy

And the correct amount is constantly changing

Like ,"price is Right,". Correct amount is the closest without going over

bakers dozen

The correct amount is the closest without going under





Advice is harder to give

Sometimes you do the same thing in two situations and you get different results

If she gave bad advise, I could blame her for the outcome

If she gave good advice, then you need less counseling




The counselors field is the Diagnosic statistical manual. It is not relationship and emotions

Not many things fall neatly into the dam

Not even diagnosis themselves

So counselors job is to sit around flapping her trap about things she does not know any more about, than an average person