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07 Apr 2019, 7:42 am

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My spouse is as mild and accommodating as one can imagine but he is pretty po'd at me today and this is difficult for me to handle. I think it hinges on me having to do the taxes today. I have to do them because there is my business and also issues about being in a hurricane disaster area. It's very complicated and takes all my brain power. So I wasn't available to help put the groceries away or just in general make time for him. I will just give him time and he will get over it, but I just get so scared and don't know how to behave. I have to do a complicated task like taxes when the willingness to do it arises. I can't just make myself do it, for example, next weekend. Also, he is now working four day weeks, but I still have five plus days to work. Not asking for advice. Just what is on my mind.

he should be kissing your feet because you are doing the taxes.

He has only ever had to do a 1040EZ before he met me. He has no idea what the fuss is about.

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07 Apr 2019, 11:07 am

Note to self: Don't argue with a certain someone on another forum about the fact that nuclear families aren't the 'best and most fulfilling thing you can get', because it's not worth defending myself and my own choices and how I want to live my life, as if I have to prove something.

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07 Apr 2019, 1:06 pm

^ they sound like idiots

I dress for attention which is ok because all I get from decent people is compliments

Only have sex with people you find attractive…

I need to be careful around here because if I say anything negative about us people get offended

I love goodnight sweetheart

Would it really be weird to see two men kiss in 1990s London

I could basically live around one thing and get everything done these days

At least I could live my media life around one thing

Tom has started drinking all the time

I cuddle my mum all the time there’s nothing wrong with it if you trust your parent

I get some really weird youtube suggestions

Spain is beautiful

Everything felt really cool then and everything is starting to feel really cool now as well

I’m going to seriously go next time no matter what the other priorities are just like everyone else. It’s pathetic that all I had was school and I never went. Not even proper school, year 8. Wasn’t like I had any proper exams.

I haven’t seen trainspotting 2 yet

I’m prone to bragging about that one guy from my last neighbourhood

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07 Apr 2019, 3:28 pm

Why is it that I can never remember how to spell cinnamon? Oh, I remembered it this time, but I had to look it up for the millionth time earlier today when I couldn't remember how to spell it, and it won't be long before I forget again.
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07 Apr 2019, 7:40 pm

If..

the 'territorial marking' of birds singing were translated into hip-hop diss songs, more often.

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07 Apr 2019, 7:48 pm

sidetrack wrote:

If..

the 'territorial marking' of birds singing were translated into hip-hop diss songs, more often.

what a creative idea!

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07 Apr 2019, 9:29 pm

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What's on my mind is how I never seem to be able to do anything even remotely useful. Any time I try to help out with anything, when I ask what I can help with, suddenly there isn't anything that needs to be done, even if they were just begging for people to help out five minutes ago. Any job I find an opening for, for one reason or another I can't perform it adequately. When I ask my parents what I can do to help out around the house, I just get shrugs in reply. And the only thing I seem to be any good at is getting in the way.

In my house it's the same way. When I ask my mother what I can do to help she usually shrugs as well. My mother doesn't beg, but she complains afterwards sometimes that "she has to do everything" or that "she has no help"(I do try and help but then...see below).

Every time I do help and felt like I did something she usually goes behind me and does it the way she likes it so then I feel like I wasted my time! So I understand what you're going through in regards to that.

As for the jobs is it that you get the job and can't do it, or that you just believe that you couldn't do it even if it's a job you haven't done before?

Places I find that are hiring, through Indeed.com. They'll have things like "be able to lift 50 pounds" as a requirement (for things like stocking or picking and packing jobs), or answering phones as a major component of the job, or something else I'm certain I can't handle because I've done the same or similar outside of a job. So technically jobs I haven't tried, but jobs I have every reason to believe I'd be fired from within a week, if I was even hired in the first place, for not being able to actually perform the job. I don't want to be humiliated and waste both their time and mine by trying them just so I can say "See, I really can't do this."

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07 Apr 2019, 9:56 pm

Shah Rukh khan is blatantly annoying not likeable/charming. My XH is way more charming to anyone who meets him and not ever annoying

even if he was manipulative and evil. I guess Shah rukh khan seems annoying but harmless.

And Shah rukh khan is not anything special looks-wise. whatever people say. Even my dad is better-looking. I don’t know why people idolize him.

Also I hate his acting esp his unnecessary habit of crying—in a fake way.

Anyway I hate those Dubai ads they keep showing. I think Dubai is a cursed, stupid superficial place that uses modern day slavery to build itself up just like America did but less blatant,
and they waste money on dumb superficial useless projects like that dumb palm tree shaped island.

Hope I get a chance to go to the library tomorrow

Therapist hasnt messaged whether shes coming tom so i dont know whether to keep kid at home or send him to school

Younger still awake

Need to do swimming thingy at special needs pool this week with them

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07 Apr 2019, 10:02 pm

Kind of tired around one o'clock. Lied down on ground.

Rolando Morales penis had the nerve to to ask me "are you ok?"

It's like, shut the f**k up

One usual movement. That did not impact anyone, and the penis asks me that question

And if I was not ok, then what?

Fine arts

Expand your horizons

Waste less time and energy worrying about mister redelings, and other penises and c***s
And my weight

Waste more time and energy on Maslow's hierarchy

Don't enjoy anything anymore

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07 Apr 2019, 10:07 pm

Shame.
Learning how to get over things.
God.
Keeping my cool (sanity).
moving (hopefully)

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08 Apr 2019, 4:00 am

People are ignoring me again.

Even my parents ignored me last night and got cross when I insisted I spoke first. Um because I spoke first. That's only fair.

On here people are ignoring me which is usually a sign I'm not being American enough.

OK then - why do you see NYY baseball caps everywhere, even everywhere in Scotland, but you don't see other ones, heck I can't even name teams beyond Red Sox and NYY.

I know the answer to that one though - strong merchandising department and New York is cool.

And those aren't fans (at least in the UK). I had a NYY cap before I knew what baseball was.

It's a difference between actual fans in the UK.

Anyway I don't care. It's the norm here.

Trying to ignore how wound up a certain guy gets me. It makes me seem bitter.

He even tried flirting with me yesterday #humblebrag Not going to lower myself like that.

At least on Reddit I'm super popular at the moment.

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08 Apr 2019, 4:27 am

Saw a former client today.
She looked at me sideways and said, " I know you from somewhere...."

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08 Apr 2019, 6:36 am

I don't know how i will continue to work and face these peoplle on a daily basis. I'm so tired from it.

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08 Apr 2019, 9:16 am

WP pages are taking forever to load today.

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08 Apr 2019, 10:26 am

TUF: You would be surprised how many Manchester United jerseys you see in NYC. It's actually a very popular team hear. People call them "MANU."

Certainly much more popular than the NYC soccer/football jerseys here. Not as popular as Yankees or Mets---yet.

When I see a Celtic one, you will be the first to know.

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08 Apr 2019, 11:04 am

Menstrual cycle came

Wrong planet was the best place I fit in

And it took 33 years to get there

Although when I was born, there was no wrong planet

Or internet

And autism had a different definition

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