dragonsanddemons wrote:
For some reason, my mom gets much more concerned when my brother isn't feeling well than when I'm not feeling well. I get a sinus infection (which, granted, I'm prone to), she sighs and tells me to let her know if it isn't better in a few days so she can make me a doctor's appointment so I can get antibiotics, then seems to forget about it. My brother says he has a bit of a headache, and she's fussing over him. I get a migraine, she just asks if I've taken ibuprofen for it and then leaves it at that, expecting me to carry about my daily tasks as usual (and she gets migraines too, so she knows what they're like). Does something about me say that I'm just a whiner and/or exaggerating? Or is it maybe just because he's younger than me (by two years) so she has more of an instinct to "baby" him?
I wouldn't take it personally, mothers tend to baby their sons more than their daughters just like fathers baby their daughters more than their sons. My mother freaks out when me or my brother is sick compared to my sister.
Him being younger could also be another reason. Since I'm the youngest my mother is more protective of me than my siblings. I guess there is also that if you are prone to migraines and sinus infections your mother could be use to it and already know how to treat it so there isn't any urgency.
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