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People have freedom of speech
But the staff legally can't ask for documentation or demonstration or ask what your disability is
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As someone afraid of dogs, the service dog law gets on my nerves
But I don't have any rights
When owners don't follow the leash Law , I can't do anything about it
Tattle to whom?
It's a dog eat dog world
Many owners take their dogs off leash
They don't care
It's illegal
Leash Law
The owner acts like they have never done anything wrong before in their lives
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People have freedom of speech
But the staff legally can't ask for documentation or demonstration or ask what your disability is
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As someone afraid of dogs, the service dog law gets on my nerves
But I don't have any rights
When owners don't follow the leash Law , I can't do anything about it
Tattle to whom?
It's a dog eat dog world
Many owners take their dogs off leash
They don't care
It's illegal
Leash Law
The owner acts like they have never done anything wrong before in their lives
Yes, people have freedom of speech - but that doesn't mean I have to like everything they say.
People can't ask for documentation because there is no official documentation or anywhere to legally register a service dog or anything like that. I probably don't like this fact much more than you do, people trying to pass off untrained pet dogs as service dogs makes things a whole lot harder for those of us with fully-trained, legitimate service dogs. I think dogs should need to be able to pass some sort of test to prove they can behave themselves in public (for the record, mine did before he could graduate from "in training" to a "real" service dog, he was just startled this time - humans are just as capable of being startled by something and shouting) and have some sort of proof that they have done so.
For what it's worth, I'm as respectful as I possibly can be toward others. If I knew someone was afraid of my service dog, I would at least make sure to keep him as far away as possible and try to keep him from making sudden movements that may startle the person, because they have just as much of a right to be there and be able to function as I do. And the only times my dog has ever been off his leash are inside the house, in a fenced yard, or at the fenced-in dog park. It seems like typically, "real" service dog owners are a lot more responsible and conscious of how their dog may affect others than many pet-dog owners, based on my interactions with and observations of both. That's actually one of the things that would tip me off that someone's "service dog" is probably just a pet dog they want to bring with them, is if they clearly aren't trying to be considerate about it.
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Yet in my new wildness and freedom I almost welcome the bitterness of alienage. For although nepenthe has calmed me, I know always that I am an outsider; a stranger in this century and among those who are still men.
-H. P. Lovecraft, "The Outsider"
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Camp is on my mind, one week from tomorrow. Also tattoos. I'd really like to start swimming regularly but don't want people to see my self-harm scars on my legs, so I think I'm going to go ahead and get dragon scales tattooed over them - the more I think aboug it, the more I like the idea. But that has to wait until after camp because tattoos take several months to fully heal and need to be properly cared for in the meantime, which I don't know if I'd be able to do at camp. So it's long swim shorts for me if I want to do any swimming there.
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Yet in my new wildness and freedom I almost welcome the bitterness of alienage. For although nepenthe has calmed me, I know always that I am an outsider; a stranger in this century and among those who are still men.
-H. P. Lovecraft, "The Outsider"
Hopefully, this doesn't sound too weird or crazy, I thought this was interesting so I felt like telling it to you all since dragonsandemoms mentioned tattoos, if I were to ever get a tattoo it would be of ghosts on my lower right arm to spread awareness for schizophrenia and many other mental disabilities, and also because I am struggling with a few. I'm not actually going to get a tattoo because I'm afraid I won't get hired because of having one but that is what I would get a tattoo of that and a Christian cross. Anyway, just an idea.
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Sometimes, I could just lean back, close my eyes and everything just gradually fades;
Then eventually, I felt and see nothing.. Literally! And I don't mean I close my eyes and seeing blank black as nothing.
As in things just... I dunno, there's no concepts, there's no time, I don't sense my constantly sensing body, there was no space, maybe no gravity or a concept of left and right -- it was spinny-spinny without the dizziness. It was fun. And it almost felt like I had a really, really good nap when it only passed less than half an hour or so!
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Garbage man
Hit man
Recycling truck driver
Taxidermy
Stalker
Stocker
Artist, dancer, actor, painter, carpenter,
Pick strawberries
Construction worker
Meals ready to eat
Buff the floor
Suicide
Brain damage
Brain cancer
False hope
Waterfall
Bermuda triangle
Beef brisket
Poutine
s**t on a shingle
Lasagna
Tuna noodle casserole
Indulge
Dead end "life"
Should have joined the army s**t
Idiots act like they have never done anything wrong before in their lives and "the meaning of life is helping people"
Buddha damn mister redelings
Want to talk to someone
Counselors are almost always too dramatic
"Distress", "mad", "important", "help", "hurt"
Vague and misleading
Subjective and out of proportion
Out of context
Involuntary reclassification military
Belonging
Risk
Danger
Belonging
Mission
Discipline
It is not "discrimination" if its between friends
Nor is it favortism
Jeanne asked me , are there any groups of people you are uncomfortable with
Answered
"Spend more time with them"
My inner circle is not Lowell high school
No racial quota
There could be an infinite number of oppressed minority groups
Your inner circle does not have to be a microcosm
If mister redelings doesn't feel comfortable around people he sees as gay (rightly or wrongly), he doesn't have to be their friend
That is not "discrimination"
Equal employment opportunity commission
Employment
There is no law saying you have to be friends with someone
You can reject any friend for any reason or no reason
I wish I was capable of setting boundaries so I could have relationships and friendships with other people.
I'm fed up of being scared of everyone.
But before that I got assaulted regularly, hardly any of the sex I had was consensual, and most of my platonic friends took advantage.
Also, most ideologies turn people toxic once they become ideology rather than just an individual having an opinion. It's like people get brainwashed. Especially with anything to do with identity.
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1 in every 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 18. 1/3 of those are under the age of six. It's a lot to think about when a friend has a five year old daughter. I just spent $55 on books for her age on setting boundaries of her own.
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I hppe you don't mind me asking, but in which ways do you find your dog helps you? I know it maybe many ways. I just find it interesting.
I used to work on the railways where we often had blind people with their guide dogs. One gentleman who I sometimes spoke to had a new dog and the dog was young... He said he sometimes had a few hairy moments when the dog occasionally forgot his duties... Like if he saw a squirrel or somwthing like that! Yes, dogs are dogs! Lovely things.
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I used to work on the railways where we often had blind people with their guide dogs. One gentleman who I sometimes spoke to had a new dog and the dog was young... He said he sometimes had a few hairy moments when the dog occasionally forgot his duties... Like if he saw a squirrel or somwthing like that! Yes, dogs are dogs! Lovely things.
Mostly he helps with anxiety and sensory issues. His tasks mostly involve giving me deep pressure, like putting a paw or the front of his body on my lap. And just having him there helps me stay much calmer in public. He really helps increase my ability to handle everyday outings like going to the store or a restaurant without shutting down or melting down because of my social anxiety and sensory issues. But he also tends to draw attention, I get lots of comments about how cute he is, or just "oh, look at the dog!"s. And yeah, one time we had to take Merlin out of a restaurant because he saw a cat through a window and couldn't control himself. But that and yesterday are the only times I can think of where he actually barked while he was on duty in the three years or so I've had him.
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Yet in my new wildness and freedom I almost welcome the bitterness of alienage. For although nepenthe has calmed me, I know always that I am an outsider; a stranger in this century and among those who are still men.
-H. P. Lovecraft, "The Outsider"
.. Hopefully I changed my sleep schedule this time... By being awake for a mere 3 hour. Then following a meal, coffee, and lots of sunlight after waking up at day.
Couldn't do the fasting method. Couldn't skip my entire body's sleep schedule. I already tried this.
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A chiropractor is similar to a physical therapist.
A chiropractor is not similar to a medical doctor.
f**k ozben felek b***h. She's a chiropractor. About 34 years old. Her office is across the street from the shopping center that I loiter in, several hours a time, several times a week.
Plenty of bathrooms
Not too much riffraff
Not crowded
Optimistic, pessimistic, realistic
Humor is not magic
Lost the zest for living a long time ago s**t
Structural engineering
But even if I were to have gotten that degree, plenty of people with the same degree have better personality than me
Take your dog to work day
Homophobia
Autism
Like Warren
If Warren were in the building when ozben brought Fido, Warren would have been hyperventilating with laughter
Brain feels so traumatized
PTSD
Even when everything is ok, brain damage
Need drugs
No hope
No future
Sarah b***h in aikido
Spoiled upper middle class brat from aikido needs pants down caning
It should not have even been in the building
Ratan cane
Not a "talk" about respect
Cliche
f**k Warren
Nice to see you.
Has anything happened to you?
Not recently like that. What upset me yesterday is that some woman on Reddit called me a misogynist for saying it's difficult to be a short woman who finds it hard to set boundaries and I wish I was a tall man. She said I'm linking my 'clearly distorted thinking' to being a woman and I need to 'seek help'.
I envy tall, muscular guys because even if they do find it hard to set boundaries, their physique does the talking for them. I envy women whose men (fathers, brothers etc) are protective enough to defend them. I envy people who grew up in areas with a lot of police, where it doesn't become an issue of 'who is the strongest'. I can't date men because every time I have done, it has been someone I find unattractive and scared to say no to and that scared to say no has lasted all the way up to the bedroom.
Basically every heterosexual relationship I've been in, since I was 13 and he was 35 has had an element where I wasn't consenting. I mean true consent where me saying no would have made a difference. I've specifically told men 'I don't want this' and they've continued. I specifically told a man I wasn't into kink and he hit me...
Yes women aren't deformed men but also, aspies aren't deformed NTs. We just find different things hard! She is so obviously caught up in tribalist mentality and 'I can't tell the truth it doesn't suit my agenda', most aspies would find it easy to break free of that.
Also what's scaring me is that I got given over £50 by someone I barely know for my birthday. The kind of guy who is meant to just buy me a drink (maybe not even that given male female dynamics, but the kind of mate you'd get a pint from). It's an over the top present so I think he expects something for it.
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