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24 Feb 2020, 4:46 am

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It feels wrong to be friends with someone who has nothing in common with me. They probably never had any real problems. I am jealous of other people's luck.


Define 'real problems'.


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24 Feb 2020, 5:05 am

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AprilR wrote:
It feels wrong to be friends with someone who has nothing in common with me. They probably never had any real problems. I am jealous of other people's luck.


Define 'real problems'.


Health problems mostly. I am sometimes jealous of people who don't have mental illnesses. I do know it is wrong to undermine people's problems but recently my friend said something to the effect of "stop exaggerating your problems" and.. Well let's just say she knows nothing about my aspergers, depression, anxiety and ocd. It made me a little angry.



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24 Feb 2020, 5:06 am

Turns out the local medical services had some of their systems replaced by new ones and they've been failing. That's the reason I haven't gotten the bill from my dentist appointments yet. Good; I thought I or the mail might have lost them.



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24 Feb 2020, 5:44 am

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funeralxempire wrote:
AprilR wrote:
It feels wrong to be friends with someone who has nothing in common with me. They probably never had any real problems. I am jealous of other people's luck.


Define 'real problems'.


Health problems mostly. I am sometimes jealous of people who don't have mental illnesses. I do know it is wrong to undermine people's problems but recently my friend said something to the effect of "stop exaggerating your problems" and.. Well let's just say she knows nothing about my aspergers, depression, anxiety and ocd. It made me a little angry.


I'll agree with you, I'm jealous of people without mental illness.
That said, you don't know whether or not she has any mental illness, since there's a substantial part of the population who have them but are also undiagnosed.

It's still sh***y that she'll minimize your problems but expect you to listen to her.


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24 Feb 2020, 6:05 am

funeralxempire wrote:
AprilR wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
AprilR wrote:
It feels wrong to be friends with someone who has nothing in common with me. They probably never had any real problems. I am jealous of other people's luck.


Define 'real problems'.


Health problems mostly. I am sometimes jealous of people who don't have mental illnesses. I do know it is wrong to undermine people's problems but recently my friend said something to the effect of "stop exaggerating your problems" and.. Well let's just say she knows nothing about my aspergers, depression, anxiety and ocd. It made me a little angry.


I'll agree with you, I'm jealous of people without mental illness.
That said, you don't know whether or not she has any mental illness, since there's a substantial part of the population who have them but are also undiagnosed.

It's still sh***y that she'll minimize your problems but expect you to listen to her.


That's right i know she has her own difficulties too but i never tried to minimize them. It was uncalled for.



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24 Feb 2020, 7:32 pm

Should I have a drink or Clonazepam, for stress?


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24 Feb 2020, 7:48 pm

That the principals ego hurt by care coordjnafor from last year n preconceptions n arrogance n ignorance of another persons life n scapegoating n ego n determination to blame and misogyny...


all ruin what can be perfectly even balanced harmonious relationship where open dialogue is not really something
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So many Canadians it seems to be due to fear n anger from restraining themselves afraid of lawsuits. I guess...

They do not have pure intentions n real honesty...there is always something hiding...

they cant be straightforward ...good or bad ... just be straightforward n intentions clear.

He is a real neurologically I mean not as an insult
Sociopath n derived enjoymet seeing me cry after trying torepeat ghe same thing non issue again n again
A lot of it to do with XH and nurses and psws who I protect


I wish I was dead but God as usual ...answers prayers for other ppl


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24 Feb 2020, 7:56 pm

I wonder if I'll ever be stable enough to try working again (clearly I wasn't the first time around). I'm wondering if I ought to scrap my goals of having my own place and/or a job by the end of the year. I feel imprisoned by my mental illnesses.


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24 Feb 2020, 8:54 pm

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Should I have a drink or Clonazepam, for stress?


I usually have a drink.
I hope you feel better soon. :heart:


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24 Feb 2020, 8:57 pm

My birthday is in two weeks and I can’t deal with it. I’m going to pretend like it’s just another day.


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24 Feb 2020, 11:35 pm

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My birthday is in two weeks and I can’t deal with it. I’m going to pretend like it’s just another day.

what is keeping you from dealing with it?



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25 Feb 2020, 1:30 am

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My birthday is in two weeks and I can’t deal with it. I’m going to pretend like it’s just another day.


(((martianprincess)))

I really didn't know what else to say.


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25 Feb 2020, 2:27 am

I'm not sure if people worship me more for my great looks or my vast intellect.



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25 Feb 2020, 2:34 am

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I'm not sure if people worship me more for my great looks or my vast intellect.


Definitely your modesty. :mrgreen:


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25 Feb 2020, 4:28 pm

Stepdad doesn't want to talk about that local crim which is obvious by the fact he changes the topic onto Tyson Fury.

So I have facts.

1 Yeah he probably was a Celtic fan. Walks like a duck, quacks like a duck etc.
2 Absolutely no Celtic fan at all wants to accept that except me so I need to shut up about it.

My trouble is I care more about facts/interesting stories/gossip than about tribalism. And I'm vague so nobody 'gets me'. And I really don't want to revisit it on social media again...

Thing is, I never liked that crim ever. Even on a shallow level, some ppl just stink. I'm just interested in the gossip and facts.


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25 Feb 2020, 4:41 pm

I need the loo,
But my armchair is particularly comfy at the moment...
Decisions, decisions...