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08 May 2020, 6:36 pm

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She failed that too though. Mum: "I don't think 'poxes' is a word, 'poxe' isn't" (scrabble).


Yeah, that ain't how it's spell't.


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08 May 2020, 7:16 pm

XH has ruined any vestiges of hope for me at every turn and that makes him super happy. He is actually flippant.


He doesn't want an actual diborce he wants to always tie the person up and get a kick out of their predicament.

The onus is always on the mom in this world.. Every country i am sure..

yet when it comes to 'equality' they act as though she had equal opportunity and judge her by those standards ...while expecting things as though she isnt 24/7 tied up (the dad certainly isnt)


even when they were not and made moreso that way by the dad (intentionally).


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08 May 2020, 8:12 pm

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XH has ruined any vestiges of hope for me at every turn and that makes him super happy. He is actually flippant.


He doesn't want an actual diborce he wants to always tie the person up and get a kick out of their predicament.

The onus is always on the mom in this world.. Every country i am sure..

yet when it comes to 'equality' they act as though she had equal opportunity and judge her by those standards ...while expecting things as though she isnt 24/7 tied up (the dad certainly isnt)

even when they were not and made moreso that way by the dad (intentionally).


The more I hear about this guy, the more I hope he's hit by lightning or some sort of falling debris in a freak accident.

He really can't expect both a 'do-over' for himself and to keep you tied up permanently as his baby-mom/no-cost nanny service who's unable and unentitled to also develop her own new, independent life.

Unrelated, here's a picture of your namesake; it's a blue E Jaguar:

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09 May 2020, 3:30 am

It's barely past the first week of May, and it's raining hard.
But then again, the sun was being too hard all around lately. But why so soon..? And why so short?


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09 May 2020, 12:29 pm

Pizza, I won't lie. I'm having pizza for dinner and I am really looking forward to it.


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09 May 2020, 12:34 pm

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XH has ruined any vestiges of hope for me at every turn and that makes him super happy. He is actually flippant.


He doesn't want an actual divorce he wants to always tie the person up and get a kick out of their predicament.

The onus is always on the mom in this world.. Every country i am sure..

yet when it comes to 'equality' they act as though she had equal opportunity and judge her by those standards ...while expecting things as though she isnt 24/7 tied up (the dad certainly isnt)


even when they were not and made moreso that way by the dad (intentionally).


My cousin was married to someone with an equal sense of entitlement. When they split up she had their two children with her, but he didn't want to pay support. He proposed that she sleep with him for money like a prostitute, on an ongoing basis. That was the only way he would give her money for the children, despite court orders. Your exhusband hasn't done that exactly (I hope), but his ethics are seriously screwed. Please don't fall for his traps.


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09 May 2020, 2:00 pm

Apparently in Korean criminal law not knowing that your actions consist of a crime means you can not be punished for it. This is a bit weird to me because wouldn't most people lie to get away with it?



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09 May 2020, 2:04 pm

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Apparently in Korean criminal law not knowing that your actions consist of a crime means you can not be punished for it. This is a bit weird to me because wouldn't most people lie to get away with it?


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09 May 2020, 2:13 pm

A very weird psychic coincidence just happened for me.

I swear I'm haunted.


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09 May 2020, 2:13 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
AprilR wrote:
Apparently in Korean criminal law not knowing that your actions consist of a crime means you can not be punished for it. This is a bit weird to me because wouldn't most people lie to get away with it?


Ignorantia juris non excusat

Ignorance of the law is no defence.


Yup, its the same here, we even use that same saying.

I just checked and the article goes like this:

"Where a person commits a crime in the belief that his conduct does not constitute a crime under existing law, he shall not be punishable provided that his mistake is based on reasonable ground. "

This would definitely cause chaos in my country..



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09 May 2020, 2:14 pm

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A very weird psychic coincidence just happened for me.

I swear I'm haunted.


Now i'm curious! 8O I hope it isn't anything scary.



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09 May 2020, 2:18 pm

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IsabellaLinton wrote:
A very weird psychic coincidence just happened for me.

I swear I'm haunted.


Now i'm curious! 8O I hope it isn't anything scary.


Not scary, just far beyond any realm of probability.
It happens for me fairly often but this one was really, really, remarkable.

Now I need to go cry and get the weird emotion out. :cry:


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09 May 2020, 2:23 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
AprilR wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
A very weird psychic coincidence just happened for me.

I swear I'm haunted.


Now i'm curious! 8O I hope it isn't anything scary.


Not scary, just far beyond any realm of probability.
It happens for me fairly often but this one was really, really, remarkable.

Now I need to go cry and get the weird emotion out. :cry:


(Hugs) a good cry helps a lot with emotion processing, i hope it will help this time too.



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09 May 2020, 4:26 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
blooiejagwa wrote:
XH has ruined any vestiges of hope for me at every turn and that makes him super happy. He is actually flippant.


He doesn't want an actual divorce he wants to always tie the person up and get a kick out of their predicament.

The onus is always on the mom in this world.. Every country i am sure..

yet when it comes to 'equality' they act as though she had equal opportunity and judge her by those standards ...while expecting things as though she isnt 24/7 tied up (the dad certainly isnt)


even when they were not and made moreso that way by the dad (intentionally).


My cousin was married to someone with an equal sense of entitlement. When they split up she had their two children with her, but he didn't want to pay support. He proposed that she sleep with him for money like a prostitute, on an ongoing basis. That was the only way he would give her money for the children, despite court orders. Your exhusband hasn't done that exactly (I hope), but his ethics are seriously screwed. Please don't fall for his traps.


Wow I wouldn't think anything short of beating that weirdo up would fix his behaviour towards the mother of his kids.

My lawyer doesn't seem to have any ideas besides letters, and she doesn't seem to remember obvious stark basic details from many times over of emails (recent emails).
I kinda miss my old lawyer only for the fact that he was good about remembering details and replying that day or the next. This one makes me wait and wait days if not weeks and still hasn't answered a specific question THE MOST PERTINENT ONE that I asked her about many times over many months ago and recently...just about 1 law.

Something my son['s babysitter had told me about
as well as the judge, I just asked her to look it up and let me know it exactly as I remember it clearly, just need the info. A specific case law.

She still hasn't since I retained her...

this law the judge had spoken of at case conference YEARS ago..

but my old lawyer hadn't bothered noting it down at the time, and did not ever recall or acknowledge it afterwards. Even XH knew this one as he mentioned it to me when I asked him. I just need the exact details of it.

:(

I guess he was $$$$$$$ because, even though he was adhering to bare basics of professionalism and a mean person, it was better than other lawyers out there.


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09 May 2020, 4:31 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
AprilR wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
A very weird psychic coincidence just happened for me.

I swear I'm haunted.


Now i'm curious! 8O I hope it isn't anything scary.


Not scary, just far beyond any realm of probability.
It happens for me fairly often but this one was really, really, remarkable.

Now I need to go cry and get the weird emotion out. :cry:


Not many people are observant enough to realize it when things like that happen.
I don't have much to say aside from that unfortunately because I'm stuck on the thought -- that I'm surprised you pay attention to things like that as people prefer to dismiss these occurrences because it makes them uncomfortable.
My mom for example


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09 May 2020, 4:32 pm

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Wow I wouldn't think anything short of beating that weirdo up would fix his behaviour towards the mother of his kids.



I won't tell you the whole story, because she wound up penniless and he took the kids. Last we heard she was homeless or living in an abandoned garage with no electricity. She was a beautiful, young, rich "California Housewife" prior to her divorce. I won't mention that her ex's father was a prominent divorce attorney, too ... he helped it all along.


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