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Do you like to cuddle?
obviously. 46%  46%  [ 18 ]
sometimes. 33%  33%  [ 13 ]
I don't do affection. 15%  15%  [ 6 ]
I enjoy affection, but I don't enjoy being touched. 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
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07 Aug 2010, 3:51 pm

One of my favorite things to do.


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07 Aug 2010, 3:53 pm

Its not quite the same, but I hugged a woman when she was upset. It felt really nice, a funny feeling inside.



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07 Aug 2010, 4:27 pm

Haven't really cuddled with anyone before so can't really say. :?

I imagine I might like it. Depends on who I'm cuddling.


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07 Aug 2010, 7:33 pm

Not really. It's usually overwhelming if it lasts more than about 30 seconds. It can be suffocating. I wish touch didn't bother me. :(



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08 Aug 2010, 10:51 pm

Ichinin wrote:
Yes with a girlfriend who i feel comfortable with. On the other hand, i do not wish to be touched in any way by family, friends, colleges, acquaintances and random strangers.


Ditto. Course I haven't had a bf in like a decade, so maybe things might have changed. But I do have a good friend who is all but asexual who likes to cuddle with me and that is pretty cool. Helps when I'm really overstimulated/amped up and bouncing off the walls. Kind of like how cowboys calm a spooked horse. (I've always heard that NTs are wired more like predator animals but people on the Autism Spectrum are wired more like a prey animal. If that is true, it would explain a lot about my weird relationship to touching/cuddling.)



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09 Aug 2010, 12:15 am

I don't really know. My friend always tries to cuddle with me but it feels weird sometimes so I usually avoid it. I think if I was dating someone I would enjoy cuddling.

I love cuddling with my cats though. :lol:


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09 Aug 2010, 12:23 am

I like to cuddle in my bed, with my green blanket, at night.


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09 Aug 2010, 12:31 am

Yes, though it has to be physically comfortable and I do have to be tired. Restlessness + cuddling = trouble.


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