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Todd489
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31 Aug 2007, 5:30 pm

Avian wrote:

I am; but what I really desire is closeness and intimacy with a member of the conflicting gender, and I mean long term.

Without love it's probably about as exciting as going to the bathroom.

Right. I'd rather have a completely non-physical relationship with someone who actually cared about me than a fling with some random rotter.

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31 Aug 2007, 5:48 pm

I am still unsexed at 27, and I am getting less and less inclined to even bother trying to change that.

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31 Aug 2007, 5:49 pm

Avian wrote:

I am; but what I really desire is closeness and intimacy with a member of the conflicting gender, and I mean long term.

Without love it's probably about as exciting as going to the bathroom.

Also, same for me too; I'm in agreement.

Actually... just cuddling and being close with a woman is more appealing than sex for me.

And I'm a guy... is that wrong... :?:

(not to say sex isn't something I want too... sometimes...)

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31 Aug 2007, 5:53 pm

I was really tempted to post here saying "I'm a virgin", wait 60 minutes, then post again "Not any more", but I managed to resist the temptation :lol:

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31 Aug 2007, 6:05 pm

nothing wrong about the cuddly part. there is no pressure in cuddling, so it often leads to other things.

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31 Aug 2007, 7:09 pm

Smelena wrote:

I've never seen snow!

Snow. White, sometimes fluffy, and more of an annoyance after the first year or two.

Not to be confused with ice:

Clear, dangerous, and fun after all the years, if only because it actually gets us days off from school.

(Although come to think of it, last year we got most days off because of cold, not any snow or ice.)

I'm sure that's not what you meant though. Sorry.

Anyway, original question: yeah.

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31 Aug 2007, 8:11 pm

Pugly wrote:

Avian wrote:

I am; but what I really desire is closeness and intimacy with a member of the conflicting gender, and I mean long term.

Without love it's probably about as exciting as going to the bathroom.

Also, same for me too; I'm in agreement.

Actually... just cuddling and being close with a woman is more appealing than sex for me.

And I'm a guy... is that wrong... :?:

Not at all. I think that's a rather admirable point of view.

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31 Aug 2007, 8:23 pm

Ugh, those snow pictures bring up bad thoughts. When winter hits here I'm going to have to run across icy roads and clamber over snowdrifts with a guitar in one hand and a mess of books in the other to avoid being late. All of my classes are in seperate buildings which are pretty far apart, and I only have 10 minutes between each class. It's hard enough getting to classes on time in the summer. Not to mention the fact that I'll have to drive to and from the university every day in that stuff. Winter is going to be hellish for me, which I suppose is ironic given the fact that it's frozen over.

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31 Aug 2007, 8:40 pm

Ana54 wrote:

I'm 19.

I wonder if someone is still considered a virgin if their virginity is taken in rape, or masturbation involving your own finger shoved up inside you.

I consider myself a virgin although I have been raped. I haven't had sex willingly. Oh, and the breaking of the hymen is not the loss of virginity.

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31 Aug 2007, 10:06 pm

I lost my virginity at 16 in the summer of my freshman year in high school with my girlfriend at the time. She tricked me into thinking she was experienced and highly sexual. Turns out, she didn't know what she was doing any more than I did. She told me she wasn't a virgin before me, but she still bled when we did it. At the time it didn't even occur to me that she lied. I just thought I must be huge and I was fine with thinking of that as being the case. But now I'm pretty sure she was lying as she had lied about a number of other things as well.

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31 Aug 2007, 10:44 pm

Yup still a virgin here and I plan on staying that way.

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01 Sep 2007, 2:30 am

Smelena,

Your children could be adopted. :)

OP: To reiterate: yeah.

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01 Sep 2007, 2:40 am

Danielismyname wrote:

Smelena,

Your children could be adopted.

OP: To reiterate: yeah.

Yes, a DNA test on your nuclear relatives and comparison to your children's DNA is the best way to prove it.

Chimeraism can cause false negatives (Chimeraism is an extremely rare genetic disorder when an organism is made up of two distinct sets of DNA, different organs being made up of different sets of DNA)

~ Flagg the Grumpy MD is fasinated by Chimeraism

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01 Sep 2007, 3:02 am

Smelena: If you ever come to AK I'll show you the beauty of snow and ice (fractals). I LOVE snow! Your kids could make snowmen and snowangels too. Alaskan glaciers too! Sometimes where I live the temp can be minus 60 Farenheit and there's less than 3 hours of light during winter solstice. AK is breathtakingly gorgeous. And wild.

Off topic.....I'm not a virgin, of course. Just lonely. I have a male 'type.' Ok, I might have a daddy fixation. Is that revealing enough?

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