Being 'at' the back of my neck, head-bobbing to music, fidgeting, shaking my hand to the music, bopping in my chair, (As you may've gathered, I'm a little muso, currently listening to Tina Cousins-Pray.)
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If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music he hears, however measured or far away.
Henry David Thoureau, 1854