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16 Feb 2024, 2:20 am

Why do I often say I'm overwhelmed and stressed than anxious?


Simple.
I do not think of what-ifs; it's all about what's happening right now and after the event passed, the symptoms are gone.

Anxiety does not work like that.
If I'm anxious, I'd know. I will have ruminating, catastrophic 'thinking too ahead and the world will change' thoughts. If not that all that blame game all over again.

Not confusing conflicting thoughts of now vs then and the headache of being pulled in different directions, nor that "I'm being late NOW!! ! DO IT NOW!! !"
Especially not 'my cup is too full' and the standalone I need a damn break before I break something.


Here's the distinction;
Anxiety towards change is like this intolerance to uncertainty.
Overwhelm towards change is this struggle in transition even if the change is exciting or desirable.


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16 Feb 2024, 5:56 am

You know the world's gone mad when you see people pushing their dogs around in prams


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16 Feb 2024, 7:30 am

My mind is actually pretty scattered at the moment- and a little drunk. But then again, it’s Friday and I have no work tomorrow. So no guilt for me



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16 Feb 2024, 8:05 am

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16 Feb 2024, 8:38 am

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16 Feb 2024, 10:09 am

I'll finish my coffee, I'll make breakfast and than I'll clean my apartment nonstop until I hear from my outreach worker, so I don't waste the next two hours crying.


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16 Feb 2024, 10:57 am

Toasted bread is way better than untoasted


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16 Feb 2024, 11:11 am

The housework is going well. I've managed to gather all of the garbage and recycling. After I covered the boiling pasta and set the timer for 15 minutes, I've managed to get the entire bathroom done in less than 15 minutes.


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16 Feb 2024, 11:16 am

Wow you're killing it today CR


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16 Feb 2024, 11:21 am

babybird wrote:
Wow you're killing it today CR


I have to. Work is the only way that I can keep my emotions at bay.


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16 Feb 2024, 11:48 am

It's weird when you look at yourself through the wrong eyes


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16 Feb 2024, 1:09 pm

This is the best pot of tea I've ever had


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16 Feb 2024, 1:26 pm

My only complaint is that I cannot understand you, I asked for clarifications and you did not answer my question.


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16 Feb 2024, 3:16 pm

I took the garbage out, did the dishes and cleaned the kitchen.


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16 Feb 2024, 6:21 pm

Are there any good British talk shows that I might be interested in? I've been watching American talk shows for the past 30 years and I need something new and exciting to watch.


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16 Feb 2024, 8:27 pm

It's somewhat amusing when you're fully engaged reading something you wrote. Why am I shocked? I wrote that plot twist. :lol:


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