Very unfortunately, my lie is #2. I had colleagues attest to what happened in writing, and I could have / should have pursued this matter, but I was too intimidated and afraid of losing my job. This was in the year 2000. I didn't know then what I know now.
1, 3 and 4 are true.
After the harassment he even showed up at my house late on a Saturday night, while I was off work on medical leave. I was recovering from surgery. He said he wanted to know how I was and he wanted to come in for a drink. His shag-mobile was outside. The whole thing was so wrong.
Note to other people facing harassment: Please don't be intimidated. I was very wrong not to report him.
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Beatles