SabbraCadabra wrote:
Another big one was when Dimebag Darrell died...I was in the hospital at the time, and my brother called and said that our uncle said that Dime and Vinnie were shot
I thought he was just kidding...of course, he was half wrong, but it still...well...I won't say it hit me hard, because it took a very long time to sink in...it's still kind of hard to believe.
i know how you felt. i was at work when i found out about Dime. my supervisor said "hey you hear about this metal guitarist shot at a show last night? what was his name? something Darrell...". i went "you mean Dimebag Darrell?". i immediately thought it was impossible. he took me to the break room and showed me the paper, name said Dimebag Darrell. i still didn't believe it, Dime couldn't be dead. went home looked up his website, tribute was there.
if we want to get personal about deaths, a friend of mine killed himself in January. he was the singer of my favorite local band (Ophur, google them, they're awesome). drove himself in front of a train in Downer's Grove. just recently had had a son. he and the band had long broken up, but you still have those idle fantasies that they might someday get back together, y'know? now it'll never happen...
i think that's how i know death is shocking to me. when my first emotion is disbelief. "no, that's not possible. they can't be dead." it just doesn't register.
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