I hold a grudge against my nephew's biological parents for abusing him, abandoning him and then messing with his head with emotional abuse throughout the rest of his life. We fostered my nephew and later adopted him, and it's an open adoption. I would never let him or the parents know my feelings but I can't forgive these people.
I also have a grudge against someone who is institutionalised for the way they treated me, but I'm learning to deal with that pain and put it behind me. Kind of.
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