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I have an extra ureter on one kidney, a congenital heart issue, Haemochromatosis (too much ferritin) and Gilbert's Syndrome. I also had a stroke.

Sounds like a lot but it none of it really affects my life. I guess they aren't technically diseases, either.

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I have asthma, diabetes and have had a couple of cancers removed. Neither came to anything serious but the 1st one resulted in a hysterectomy when I was 24.

cPTSD not so much a disease more a mental condition...

I have C-PTSD as well but you know that, my kindred spirit, and you're right -- it's not a disease although the people who gave it to us are!

Q. Do you seek revenge or wrestle to forgive?

I can forgive others, or at least understand the reasons why people might have felt the way they did about me. Forgiving myself for the dumb things I did is harder.

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Feel the hurt then forgive

Give up the right to hurt back.

Easier now than it was 40 years ago.

Everything is always my own fault, so there's no one to forgive.

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Revenge is shutting others out who've wronged me. It doesn't mean I shouldn't forgive, I have. But if people who've wronged me keep wronging me, I don't want to be around them because it isn't good for my health to do so, even in their time of great need. But still, forgiveness should be top priority, but not to the point of maintaining harmful relationships.

If there is something you could change about yourself, what would it be?

I would stop being mute, especially around my mother.

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My self-doubt.

Your one wish if a genie granted you one?

To live where I belong.

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To have my house completely paid off.

What is your favorite shade of blue?

periwinkle

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Indigo.

The one thing you haven't tried that you might want to do someday?

speaking to my mother


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