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I want to start a small hobby farm. I mean small...three guinea birds, two goats, two or three blueberry, potato plants, two apple trees.

Favorite fruit or berry?

blueberries, raspberries, pineapple.

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Strawberry and kiwi.

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watermelon , honeydew melon , pineapple ( not sure I have a favourite )

What's your favourite smell?

My most nostalgic smell is actually the exhaust from our cabin cruiser boat going chug chug chug when we reversed out of our slip with the smell of lake water and fresh air and the scent of my sun bleached life vest, when I was little.

Also vanilla, new dolls when they smell like vanilla and baby powder, lilacs, plastic toys like sand pails and toy boats.

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Purell hand sanitizer

Chocolate






What do strangers tell you, you did wrong?

The smell of diesel exhaust reminds me of my first and only girlfriend. We'd meet at the area where the busses would pick up and drop off students at school, and that smell just stuck.

Fruit scents are always a plus.

What are your least favorite smells?
Query above. Sorry, l was in the middle of posting this when that was posted, and currently have no answer.

Strangers perceive me as rude or arrogant sometimes, because I often go mute and I sometimes forget to smile.
They think I'm being a snob when I'm actually just afraid.

Least favourite smells: Roasting chicken, roasting meat of any type really (I like the smell but I get nauseated by it after a few minutes, somehow), any type of chemical smell including perfume and air fresheners, spearmint, peppermint, cocoa powder, roses (unless they are wild roses outdoors), and lilies.

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Perfume, cologne, smoke, citrus, air fresheners, and things along those lines.

Do you wash your hair every day?

no


what kind of arguments have you had with your friends?

Nothing as of recent.

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Best friend ever: It imploded because I couldn't keep up socially. She tried but I withdrew.
Teenage friend: She rang me and said "I don't want to be your friend any more". No reason.
Uni Friend: She had a major meltdown and suddenly hated me but never said why.
Later Friend #1: She died before we had a chance to argue.
Later Friend #2: She stopped talking to me after my stroke. No explanation.

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Friend 1. A bipolar blowmonkey like me who told me I was a creep, then messaged me and said he was sorry and guilted me into forgiving him, and then turned around and did the same thing AGAIN and said very nasty things that hurt my feelings, and then had the nerve to ask other people about me because he was worried about me and he felt responsible when it really was HIS fault I quit going to that stupid forum. I don't forgive people twice btw.

Friend 2. A guy from the Middle East who seemed nice at first until I realized he hated women and he hated Jewish people. I quit wanting to be friends with him after he told me that the Jews deserved what happened to them during World War 2.

So basically the disagreement was that these two saw themselves as my friends and I disagreed.

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With whom have you had the most effective, reciprocal communication in your life?

(spouse or partner, mother, father, other relative, friend, colleague, pastor / rabbi, teacher, online relationship, etc).

An online friend I had for about 5 years. There's things I would tell her that I told no one else (and she was the very first person I went to when it came to light that there was some chance I could be somewhere on the spectrum, as she was on it). It all fell apart because I began to have feelings she could not reciprocate, and unfortunately screwed things up badly. What's worse is that rather than leave things alone as they were, I followed her around hoping to find some way of fixing things, only to have her understandably blow up in my face and regard me as nothing more than a stalker. I haven't seen any trace of her in over 2 1/2 years (nor have I gone looking), and it's taken me over 4 to get to the point where I am now, where she isn't the main focus and don't feel like breaking down (something I could not afford to do, and had to dig VERY deep to find the strength to hide it all from almost everyone).

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