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24 Jan 2019, 2:26 am

I would have been really pleased if someone told me that. I hated school.

What would you do if you found out you had a long lost child?



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24 Jan 2019, 2:30 am

I would say "How the hell did that happen?" because Im still a virgin. :scratch:

Would you want to live isolated on a tropical island?



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24 Jan 2019, 2:32 am

TW1ZTY wrote:
I would say "How the hell did that happen?" because Im still a virgin. :scratch:

Would you want to live isolated on a tropical island?


Yes that would be fine by me. It would be peaceful, no one to judge or bully me.

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24 Jan 2019, 2:50 am

I would love to, but I would need a lifetime supply of bipolar medication. :mrgreen:

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24 Jan 2019, 6:41 am

I don't think I'd like to be all alone, no matter how much people abuse me.
Hopefully there would be animals.

What would you do if you had someone's child, and he decided not to care anymore?

That's more towards females, but of course I can't stop a male from answering.



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24 Jan 2019, 9:36 am

caThar4G wrote:
I don't think I'd like to be all alone, no matter how much people abuse me.
Hopefully there would be animals.

What would you do if you had someone's child, and he decided not to care anymore?

That's more towards females, but of course I can't stop a male from answering.


What would I do? I'd raise the child with love and remember that the child belongs to you emotionally, spiritually and biologically, but the man doesn't. Partners or spouses never belong to people in the same way their child does. Romantic relationships come and go, but parenthood is forever. Parenthood can't be undone. Your little boy is now the centre of your universe, and that's exactly where he should stay. He deserves nothing less.


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24 Jan 2019, 10:15 am

Do you try to help other autistic persons as best as you can?



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24 Jan 2019, 10:17 am

I wish this didn't happen as often as it does. But it does happen often. Men, at times, don't want to take the responsibility for a child. For various reasons.

This is no knock on men as a gender, it should be noted. It's a knock on the men who don't take responsibility for their kids.

There are many children of single mothers who come out just fine.

I know it's hard being a single mother. My mother was a single mother after she got separated from my father. I was 11 years old. I was a handful!

But I came out okay.

You can ensure that your kid comes out okay, too.



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24 Jan 2019, 10:28 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I wish this didn't happen as often as it does. But it does happen often. Men, at times, don't want to take the responsibility for a child. For various reasons.

This is no knock on men as a gender, it should be noted. It's a knock on the men who don't take responsibility for their kids.

There are many children of single mothers who come out just fine.

I know it's hard being a single mother. My mother was a single mother after she got separated from my father. I was 11 years old. I was a handful!

But I came out okay.

You can ensure that your kid comes out okay, too.


My nephew was abandoned by his mother. My brother adopted him and raised him as a single father (with no biological connection). I know another woman who left her three sons. There are douchebags of both genders out there. caThar is best to focus on her child and be proud of her dedication to that sweet little boy.


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24 Jan 2019, 10:31 am

I'm not sure: but is your child 2 months old now?



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24 Jan 2019, 10:32 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I'm not sure: but is your child 2 months old now?


He's almost one month. ^


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24 Jan 2019, 10:34 am

I think part of your feeling stems from the fact that you lack sleep. Because your baby has to have feedings every 2-3 hours. This is very hard on even the strongest mother or father.

I know you almost definitely do this already----but make sure your son knows he is loved by you. Play with his nose. Rub his belly. Stuff like that. You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to read him Socrates or something.



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24 Jan 2019, 10:48 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I think part of your feeling stems from the fact that you lack sleep. Because your baby has to have feedings every 2-3 hours. This is very hard on even the strongest mother or father.

I know you almost definitely do this already----but make sure your son knows he is loved by you. Play with his nose. Rub his belly. Stuff like that. You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to read him Socrates or something.


Plato and Aristotle, however ... :chin:


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24 Jan 2019, 10:51 am

Honestly I would really hate myself every day for this but I don't think I'm a fit father for a child due to my bipolar disorder and aspergers so I would find a good family to adobt them. It would break my heart knowing that my kid might grow up to resent me the same way I resent my father for never being in my life but I would love him or her enough to let them hate me if it meant giving them a better life.

And my mom raised me as a single mother too. I think that's why I admire women so much, I've had a lot of strong female influence in my life.

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24 Jan 2019, 10:56 am

I've lost track of the question.

If it is "Do you help other autistic people?", my answer would be that I don't know very many autistic people. Maybe one or two. I certainly do try to help them, usually at the expense of myself.

Do you know how to make my TV reception better? It's messed up. :(


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24 Jan 2019, 11:11 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I've lost track of the question.

If it is "Do you help other autistic people?", my answer would be that I don't know very many autistic people. Maybe one or two. I certainly do try to help them, usually at the expense of myself.

Do you know how to make my TV reception better? It's messed up. :(


^ I was referring to the question "What would you do if you had someone's child, and he decided not to care anymore?" :)