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I don`t read that fast actually..

Do you pay attention to what you dream at night ?

Yes. Especially when the dream is vivid. I try to remember the events and then work through them to gather a meaning, if any comes up.

Same question.

Yes. If the dream feels real, I also try to determine the symbolisms.

Same question.

I always pay attention to my dreams, because sleeping and dreaming are two of my favourite things.

Here's a philosophical question for you all:

Yes a lot of times my dreams have predicted the future and thats why when I have vivid dreams like tht i tell ppl straight away. Then when it comes true i can ask them to remind me what i dreamed n then i know im not imagining it, it really did come true

I think i’d feel the same . I’d give her something as a bribe to make her kill me . She probably wdnt as she wd be bound to the laws of fate n i wd hate her

What makes genuinely bad people look good or decent or even more honest n trustworthy than most people in your opinion?

In the Sandman series, Death loves everyone, and never hates anyone, and can be swayed to bargain far more than she's willing to admit.


Part of it may be the 'all girls want bad boys' trope and how abuse is romanticized, plus how people can rationalize the most appalling actions with 'he/she didn't mean it/it was a bad day/they're just misunderstood/only I can save them'.

I have no clue. Maybe some of them go out of their way to seem really kind to others? Like really selfless and helpful and caring. Always saying Hello and offering assistance and smiling and stuff. That way they can deflect suspicion away from them? Its the really really bad people that are the best at looking good.

Have you ever gotten really hooked on something because you hated it, not because you liked it?

I like the question, feel like saying yes and what example could I give?.

Does reading about colonialism and the history of women being marginalized count?.

What indicates you can trust someone?, for you.

That i talk to them.


To be honest my issue is trusting too much n trusting anybody n telling everyone everything,

Even ppl I just met
which is extremely wrong and unsafe so I am a bad person to answer this


Same Q

I'm the same blooie. It's a hallmark of trauma not knowing whom to trust, but wanting compassion. In my ASD assessment I called it "oversharing and under caring". That's not to say that I didn't care about the person I overshared with, but rather that they didn't usually care about me. I couldn't discern who wanted to hear it and who didn't.

same q

I'm trusting, but learned in some harsh ways not to be. I guess I now take my time in getting to know someone. Part of it may be cultural, too. In my native culture, we don't share things. Personal things stay personal.

In the past few years I've taken up some studies of different personality traits, and I think that helped broaden my understanding of who to trust and when. People who are more stand-off-ish seem to be better people later on. Some people who are overly friendly, generally, tend to turn out to be shifty (to put it mildly). But I don't think that there are hard and fast rules to this. I'm still learning, as we are all.

Same question.

Im a pretty trusting person. If someone seems nice and well meaning than I'll go ahead and trust them. Unless they do something to break that, than I treat them as best I can. I refuse to completely give up on humanity, so Im ok with taking someone at face value and hoping they're just a nice underneath. And I believe everyone deserves second chances, so even if they do break it, they can sometimes work to repair it.
Id super hate to be wary of someone when I dont really know them well enough to judge. What if Im wrong? Then Id feel terrible. And I when I meet someone for the first time, I try to be as neutrally kind as possible regardless of what that person looks like/acts like/is associated with/etc.

Do you have any specific phobias?

I am afraid to be around many people esp in closed areas (eg grocery store, school)
That is a real phobia it was easier in Saudi arabia bcuz people dont bother u trying to be friendly and
u can attend things alone
They also had1 person only times where u can go n only one pwrson gets to have that whole thing to themselves

or request girls only areas if u are a girl which is good bcuz then u dont worry about men judging n thinking u are weird
N girls are too busy socializing amongst themselves to care if u are weird or not

or complete privacy like screens put up but i still had it there its lifelong
Same Q

Conceptual phobias:
Duplicity
Death of other people (loss)
Falling through ice / drowning in cold water
Hypothermia
Female professionals

Real phobias:
Worms Monsters from Hell / Mud Serpents
Butter knives
The colour orange and one shade of robin's egg

Have you read Lisa, Bright and Dark?

Last edited by IsabellaLinton on 13 Feb 2019, 12:48 am, edited 1 time in total.

Wow you are so in tune with it and aware. I think the idea of splitting it into conceptual and real is good. I think female professionals is an interesting one and also the robins egg colour (pale blue? Mayne it reminds u of delicatr veins n fragility?)

No i have not

What is it about?