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NO never

(I think Isabella was referring to romantic as she clearly said ‘wd u want it again’ which wdnt apply if she meant any relationship whatsoever)

Do you have a cure for dizziness?

Sorry I don't diziness cure.

Would you rather live in the United States Of Canada or Jesusland?

I currently reside in near Theocracia, so, if I had my choice, I'd choose to live in a more secular part of the world.


Have you been able to manage yourself during an interview process?

Blooie: This is related to a question a few posts back, but hopefully you can see the beauty that you are rather than think about the beauty in your mind that you "were" before having children. I know that's easy for others to say and sometimes seemingly impossible for us to do; this is coming from someone with his own set of low self esteem issues.

While I'm sure there are men out there that have an idea that an attractive woman, regardless of age should retain the body of an 18 year old young woman, even after having children, such men would clearly be ignorant, superficial and delusional. A good man not only understands (usually through experience) that a woman's body changes after having children, but more importantly, a good man genuinely truly appreciates and regards such changes as beautiful.

It had to be said!

Can I predict the future? Yes I can but my accuracy is only 50%.

Have you ever just walked away from a conversation without saying anything?

From a literal standpoint yes, as I don't always use the word anything. Figuratively speaking, probably not though I do have a habit of walking off when I'm not sure what to say.

What is your greatest skill?

I don't believe I have "one greatest skill". Maybe I would have to say my greatest skill is living life daily in this body and navigating the world as best I can in spite of the challenges I face.

What is your favorite color?

I don't know my talents any more. Since ASD diagnosis I'm reevaluating everything I do, and I don't know what's valuable or not. Reading? (so what). Writing academic papers? (no longer needed). Being kind? (sure, but I'm reclusive). Finance? (I'm very good with money, but I've also had some serious disasters via extortion). Dog care? Yup, it must be dog care.

Colour: Charcoal grey. I love it because you can accentuate it to be feminine with soft pink or violet, and it doesn't look as harsh as black. It's like a thunderstorm. For those who will say "Grey isn't a colour!", I pick periwinkle.

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Blue. Most any shade of blue. If I had to pick a shade it would be a deep dark blue. Does everyone get the feeling that Magna likes the color blue?

Describe a time when you were a child and you felt like one of your parents took a suggestion you had to heart or followed advice you'd given them making you feel important as a result.

I have few such memories as well. The one that does jump out at me though happened in 1983 or 1984. My Dad took me along with him on a road trip to South Dakota to help someone move there. We were driving back home and the trip would have been 10-12 hours. I was too young to drive and I noticed that my Dad was starting to nod off. A rarity for me with him, I became firmly insistent that we should stop at a motel and sleep and make the rest of the trek the next day. I expected a protest from him, but surprisingly he agreed and stopped at the very next town. I felt grown up that he'd actually take something I suggested to heart.

While he was getting ready for bed I turned on the TV and a rock video program was on. Kiss The Bride by Elton John was the video that started playing. I'll never forget it.

Ooh, walk time!

When was the last time you used a blender?

Never used one before.

Are you better with numbers or words?

Want to answer the parent question as it is very interesting.

Unfortunately
As a child to now
my dad seemed to over rely on my opInion (over my mother’s.. she was ignored in her input no matter what!)
EG when he got a job offer in another country he wd ask ME whether he shd take it n whether the whole family shd move with him or stay behins


this was bad because
1. It pressured me to try and come up with the decision best suited to everyone and wd make both parents happy

2. It made me feel guilty knowing my dad should be consulting me only as a formality if at all, and should give precedence to my mom

3. Power imbalance made my mom feel unstable like no matter what logic n experience she cited my dad wd ignore it. This probably created a lpt of

repressed anger and depression in her
Also it made the family dynamics dysfunctional and caused resentment

4. Any negative effects of my choice (which was made after consulting with those i trusted eg Mom, elder female cousin )
I felt extremely guilty about and was also blamed fr by my siblings.

So its not that good

Blender - last year before it completely broke. Need to purchase a very high quality juicer fr sons G tube (looked into blenderized which Dietician forbade till recently)
but no $$

I am bad at numbers I believe I have ‘hyperlexia’ though which makes ppl thinj i am smarter than i am n also doubt the ASd diagnosus. Words n reading open up realms that wd be closed to an ASd person otherwise
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