I'm sorry to hear it. I don't really have any major social anxiety anymore (for me, it was a teenage thing), though I still hate spending too much time around people for sensory reasons (most people are too noisy and I hate any kind of physical contact). That said, for me coffee shops are the ultimate social compromise - I get enough social contact to avoid being officially classifiable as a hermit, while at the same time being in complete control of the social aspects involved; I go in, don't make eye contact and, once I've made my order, go straight to my seat and begin reading my book. Nobody's ever tried to engage me in small talk at my regular coffee shop, to my recollection, though I do recall a nice old man, who seemed like an aspie to me, talking to me about Canterbury Tales, which I happened to have in front of me at the table, when I visited a small town coffee shop while visiting Ireland last December.
I love mussels, cockels and prawns, though my stomach isnt keen on the former two
Have you ever really been convinced of solipsism as a metaphysical position?