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19 Nov 2018, 7:15 pm

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Trying to back out of our payment deal, are you?

A deals a deal but I think I might of been drunk when we made it as I can't remember what we agreed :twisted:

No problem! Vlad has a couple of "special assignments" he needs done — if you take care of those for me, we can consider your debt paid off. Just be sure not to keep Vlad waiting. He isn't as forgiving as I am.


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19 Nov 2018, 7:23 pm

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^Then break free. You can do it. What other people think of you and how they want you to be is none of their business. You are divine incarnate.


But if I never get a girlfriend, it will mean my life was truly wasted.


Life is meant to be enjoyed, not miserable.

I have the feeling that what you truly want is to be loved, which, in the end, is what most people want.

I totally understand that, as I've craved love for years. But you don't have to search for it. You are loved, and everyone is loved, and are never abandoned.


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19 Nov 2018, 7:30 pm

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^Then break free. You can do it. What other people think of you and how they want you to be is none of their business. You are divine incarnate.


But if I never get a girlfriend, it will mean my life was truly wasted.


Life is meant to be enjoyed, not miserable.

I have the feeling that what you truly want is to be loved, which, in the end, is what most people want.

I totally understand that, as I've craved love for years. But you don't have to search for it. You are loved, and everyone is loved, and are never abandoned.


I have had people leave my life because they decided they hated me for not "snapping out" of being depressed.

I can't just drop wanting a girlfriend. The last 12 years would be all for nothing if I did. It would mean those who told me I would never have a girlfriend were right.



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19 Nov 2018, 7:31 pm

I used to think that if I found someone to love me, all my problems would miraculously disappear. But then I realized that problems come from beliefs and perceptions that are skewed, and that Shakespeare said it best in Hamlet: 'There is nothing good nor bad, but thinking makes it so.'


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19 Nov 2018, 7:35 pm

I know it wouldn't fix everything but I still want a girlfriend for special moments. Are you telling me not to want a girlfriend?



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19 Nov 2018, 8:03 pm

I'm telling you that your problems won't be fixable, and you won't get out of the seemingly helpless situation you are in, unless you are willing to change.


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19 Nov 2018, 8:03 pm

I think kura's saying you might refocus towards simpler wants & needs in order to make more space in your reality for the major stuff.


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19 Nov 2018, 8:16 pm

I somehow have the feeling that a number of new sockpuppets/imaginary-users have appeared on the board lately.


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19 Nov 2018, 8:20 pm

^ you too?


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19 Nov 2018, 8:22 pm

Oh, dear. :o


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19 Nov 2018, 8:24 pm

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^ you too?

No, not me. You, maybe.


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19 Nov 2018, 8:25 pm

^ :scratch:


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19 Nov 2018, 8:27 pm

I am Spartacus.


...wait that can't be right


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19 Nov 2018, 8:29 pm

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^ you too?

No, not me. You, maybe.

When in doubt, blame the ferret.


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19 Nov 2018, 8:29 pm

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I am Spartacus.


...wait that can't be right

I am Smartyass.


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