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17 Nov 2015, 2:42 pm

Well, I'll have to start putting my contingency plan into action fairly soon..


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18 Nov 2015, 4:08 am

^what do you mean?


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18 Nov 2015, 11:04 am

Well Kipro, what I mean is that, I've put in my 2 week resignation notice therefore I'll be doing some seasonal work till a wondrous autistic program starts up in January.. :)


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18 Nov 2015, 11:05 am

^Nice! :D Good for you!


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18 Nov 2015, 11:15 am

Thanks Kuraudo777, as there is this program which provides Actual training for various careers for people within the autistic spectrum, not simply where someone throws you into a job and sees if you can swim or sink as, had been the previous case.


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18 Nov 2015, 6:06 pm

How the heck does one make a friend? Or at least seem interesting to the other person? Hmmm.... :chin:

It's probably too big an effort for me, anyway.



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18 Nov 2015, 6:08 pm

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19 Nov 2015, 1:07 am

i_wanna_blue wrote:
How the heck does one make a friend? Or at least seem interesting to the other person? Hmmm.... :chin:


i find success when i am not thinking of, well, exactly that. i just come off as weird otherwise. :idea:


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19 Nov 2015, 1:37 am

I'm thinking it could be over for me and my Aspie friend. It's been a month and a half since I heard from him last. I've stopped sending any texts or emails because of no responses. You know what's scary? I would have done anything for him and I said so many times that I hope he is always in my life. Right now, I feel absolutely nothing. I don't miss him, I don't long for things to be like they were. I'm just numb. Indifferent. Tired. Exhausted. I'm pretty sure that I won't be texting him since I've gotten used to not talking to him anymore. And if I know Aspies, he won't make the first move. Idk, maybe I'm wrong and he really misses me. I guess I'll find out by seeing if he ever texts me. That will tell me if I'm important enough to him.


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19 Nov 2015, 4:20 am

A new start after too many years of hiding.

Another great opportunity that I'm going to take this time.

I'm not going to hide anymore... You have lost your power over me.. Poor you :(


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19 Nov 2015, 8:34 am

Kiprobalhato wrote:
i_wanna_blue wrote:
How the heck does one make a friend? Or at least seem interesting to the other person? Hmmm.... :chin:


i find success when i am not thinking of, well, exactly that. i just come off as weird otherwise. :idea:


I suppose not forcing the issue is the best way, but it's a fine line between it and not making any effort at all.



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19 Nov 2015, 8:46 am

nurseangela wrote:
I'm thinking it could be over for me and my Aspie friend. It's been a month and a half since I heard from him last. I've stopped sending any texts or emails because of no responses. You know what's scary? I would have done anything for him and I said so many times that I hope he is always in my life. Right now, I feel absolutely nothing. I don't miss him, I don't long for things to be like they were. I'm just numb. Indifferent. Tired. Exhausted. I'm pretty sure that I won't be texting him since I've gotten used to not talking to him anymore. And if I know Aspies, he won't make the first move. Idk, maybe I'm wrong and he really misses me. I guess I'll find out by seeing if he ever texts me. That will tell me if I'm important enough to him.


I also thought it was over between myself and an internet friend. He didn't say anything for a good 2+ months. Turns out he was just really busy and I guess our communication had hit a dead end. I suppose there was very little left to keep it going. Online communication is like that. Somehow we may perceive rejection or being ignored but silence may mean nothing of that sort. I'd wait a few more weeks, and if he hasn't said anything try to get the communication started again. Sometimes a break is needed to freshen up the communication.



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19 Nov 2015, 11:18 am

So far we've had seven spammers today 8O



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19 Nov 2015, 11:20 am

^Yikes. We'd better break out the big hammers, then.
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19 Nov 2015, 11:24 am

Make that eight spammers! Poor hosting server and BanHammer :(



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19 Nov 2015, 11:26 am

^Blimey! What can we do???


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