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14 Apr 2013, 11:07 am

Trying to educate a narcissistic self-professed psychopath in General forum that he is not clever trying to manipulate Aspies.


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14 Apr 2013, 1:46 pm

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Trying to educate a narcissistic self-professed psychopath in General forum that he is not clever trying to manipulate Aspies.


I'm unhappy because he made you unhappy. He affected your emotional state. In effect, he got what he wanted which was a rise from you. My advice is say nothing to him and do not talk to him. No contact needs to be the absolute rule with him. By responding, you feeding his ego and narcisstic supply.



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14 Apr 2013, 2:22 pm

My first ocarina fell and broke... I was planning to upgrade to a multi-chamber one soon, but not like this. -_-

Guess I'll glue the parts back together and memorialize it on a shelf or something.



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14 Apr 2013, 3:18 pm

People who can be very casual about their rudeness on the internet. I wonder if they are this way in R/L?



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14 Apr 2013, 5:29 pm

I have no new movies to watch tonight on dvd. To the archives batman....


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14 Apr 2013, 7:20 pm

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whirlingmind wrote:
Trying to educate a narcissistic self-professed psychopath in General forum that he is not clever trying to manipulate Aspies.


I'm unhappy because he made you unhappy. He affected your emotional state. In effect, he got what he wanted which was a rise from you. My advice is say nothing to him and do not talk to him. No contact needs to be the absolute rule with him. By responding, you feeding his ego and narcisstic supply.


:flower: Such a nice comment has made me less unhappy!

The thread was deleted in the end anyway. I got worried that he came onto WP to target niaive Aspies, that he was trying to learn about us so he could IRL victimise and use more Aspies. So I wanted to let him know we are not stupid, and to make him doubt himself enough to think twice about doing it. I hope he has been banned by now. I did leave the thread in the end because it wasn't worth it. Thanks for your kind words. 8)


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14 Apr 2013, 7:26 pm

Coming back home after a 12hr shift haveing my dad say clean the dishes when I come in...was like really your here at home doing nothing all day



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14 Apr 2013, 10:13 pm

whirlingmind wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
whirlingmind wrote:
Trying to educate a narcissistic self-professed psychopath in General forum that he is not clever trying to manipulate Aspies.


I'm unhappy because he made you unhappy. He affected your emotional state. In effect, he got what he wanted which was a rise from you. My advice is say nothing to him and do not talk to him. No contact needs to be the absolute rule with him. By responding, you feeding his ego and narcisstic supply.


:flower: Such a nice comment has made me less unhappy!

The thread was deleted in the end anyway. I got worried that he came onto WP to target niaive Aspies, that he was trying to learn about us so he could IRL victimise and use more Aspies. So I wanted to let him know we are not stupid, and to make him doubt himself enough to think twice about doing it. I hope he has been banned by now. I did leave the thread in the end because it wasn't worth it. Thanks for your kind words. 8)


No problem, I was trying to save you from grief and aggravation and make sure you and others don't get hurt by him.

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I wanted to let him know we are not stupid, and to make him doubt himself enough to think twice about doing it.


I see a problem with your logic and that is he will doubt himself. Remember the guy has an extremely high ego. More than likely he will not doubt himself whatsoever. He believes he is superior to others including both NTs and Aspies alike. No doubt will be there.

I will not mention him anymore and I ask that you and others don't perservate on him whatsoever. This feeds his narcissistic supply. By debating him he wins. The only way to win is to deny him battle. Do you agree and do you agree we should talk about things that could help us in our lives and just forget this guy?



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15 Apr 2013, 2:52 am

"Oh I like manual cashbooks, much better than that newfangled computer accounting stuff" Says the freaking geezer who hasn't spent the last week dealing with a r8 s**t mess full of mistakes. If I was scowling at him today it was intentional. Other firms in town groan at us when they get an old client of ours STILL using these stoopid manual cashbooks. I say, they should direct all groans towards him. They were probably all old clients of his.



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15 Apr 2013, 4:07 am

I wanna play and all my friends are offline :(



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15 Apr 2013, 4:16 am

telstra cancelled their appointment on us. we have no phone line or internet. my friend needed my help and i wasnt there for him.



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15 Apr 2013, 11:28 am

My Neck is bothering me today. Plus I am working later.


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15 Apr 2013, 3:53 pm

I heard of explosions today at the Boston Marathon. That is quite distressing.



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15 Apr 2013, 5:41 pm

I just found out that I may not be able to attend the graduation of my favorite cousin on my mom's side. In past years, so many people crammed into the gym that the fire marshal is limiting the number of people who can come. So my aunt has a limited amount of tickets which she is going to distribute thru a lottery. Wish me luck.


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16 Apr 2013, 7:36 am

I have go back to work tomorrow. I feel very depressed.



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16 Apr 2013, 8:27 am

the cat just vomited three times all over the floor. like right now. it smells like faecal excriment.
also my cousin is coming to this country to study. i dont want to see him again, not after this holiday. the things he said are unforgiveable and i hate him for it and the way it made me feel and its going to suck seeing my family be all happy to see him and be nice to him and im going to be expected to be nice and when im not people will wonder why since we used to be so close as children. i dont want to be near him. nshkur allah i live far away and have uni. i dont want to kiss him hello.