BobTheMartian wrote:
Hey, if you have that attitude then it definitely *will* be like all the 'other failures'. If you treat her like a possible girlfriend, then yeah, there will be risks of heartbreak, but if you have that mindset then it'll be much easier to work towards the goal of getting her interested. Show her your charm, wit, and what a great person you can be, and let the chips fall where they will. If she is indeed interested, she'll be able to see that you are as well and things will move forward from there. You need to be willing to give it a little push to overcome inertia and get the momentum going, though.
Yeah, I know you're right. Just kind of hard to put adopt that mindset. I act more confident around people so maybe I will adopt it around her. But then again, I don't even know the girl that well at all so I may not even like her after all.
Argh! I didn't want to worry about this bull s**t anymore. If I wasn't stranded in this redneck infested hellhole.....! !
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