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I like it. More please.

Great list

I also think it's a great list.

You've pretty much covered it all.

haha ya

If I had wrote that, everybody would have been against it, either because I don't explain things as clearly as others here do, or that I have the ''wrong name''.

There's something you forgot to mention - yes, the wheels on the bus do indeed go 'round and 'round.

Love it. Laughed so hard it hurt.

Just a note about the expanded versions appearing. Nice work, but if it get much longer, nobody would read it anyway, which would defeat the purpose.

Why is this hiding in the Random forum BTW? This ought to be right in the WP forum. Unless, that is, absolutely none of this is to be taken seriously at all.

And that thought just makes me sad.

First posted Oct. 31, 2011

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Fantastic!!

no

That was fun =P
I can sense a hint of annoyance there for sure, but it would be completely justified.

Wow lots of rules and regulations to follow but I'm ASD so I think I can deal with that ;D