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^^ Are you asking me? Whenever anyone asks me this question, I always reply, no amount is too much if you're thinking about me. If you're thinking about any other person, then any amount is too much.

Or you make a post and someone thinks you called them out but did it passive aggressively without mentioning them. Like they think they are the only ones that are guilty of it so you must be talking about them specifically.

I don't know. I see ridiculously small numbers in the studies I've read, and I don't think that's the right way to deliberate.
All I know is that reactive hypersexuality can be a possible method of coping in the case of people who have experienced trauma. Shaming them because they’re thinking about sex won’t help them. Thinking a lot about sex isn’t bad if it doesn’t affect your life.
But it is becoming an problem when you feel bad about your practices or if sex prevents you from having normal relationships with your loved ones (I think I fall into the second category).

Now I'm embarrassed.

I think about sex a lot, but it’s not a problem. There’s no shame in having a problem, though. I’d probably just seek help if I needed it.

I'm delighted to learn that. Take care of yourself.
I tried to answer your question but I got stuck because I didn't want to give you a number for the average number of sexual thoughts per day because I didn't think it was relevant.
I'm not ashamed of having problems but I am ashamed of making people uncomfortable.
And sometimes embarrassed by jokes.

People who brag a lot.

People who speed and drive noisy cars in residential areas while the police do nothing despite all the complaints.

People who use their age as an excuse to stop learning.

Dad can't figure out his phone settings. I try to help him and explain how each of them work. He's like "I'm old!"

He's drunk is more like it.

Racial prejudice

Dehumanizing The Other

Loud motorcycles

Pushy salespeople in shops that won't let you browse and keep pushing you to buy things, I end up walking out and going somewhere else.

The way so many words and their meanings have been completely bastardized ever since the internet came out.
Such as literally, irony, drama, trauma, satire, triggered, cringe, Nazi, commie, commie Nazi (how is that possible?), fetish, cancer and autism. There will be more.

And then people say, "But most words had different meanings years ago." No, there's a difference between the English language evolving through history and people misusing and/or overusing words because they're basically 12 year olds with the brains of an intellectually disabled baboon.

People thinking that I want the world to go back to the way it was in the 50s just because I believe in the culture of life.

"which Asian are you?" Makes me feel like I don't belong

Day laborers screaming "Chino" at me

Tattletale tom micromanaging me

Off leash dogs

Customers insisting that I load their merchandise even though I have a doctor's note

Customers demanding I unlock the litterbox for them

Litterbox out of order

Ass holes making loud unnecessary noises just because they want something

Entitled lil dipshits

Idiots that talk too much

Idiots that have the nerve to bark at me every time they think I did the slightest thing wrong

"Pick your battles" is good advice but some ass holes pick "all" the battles

Getting wet in the rain

Getting laughed at

Those ads that pop up at the end of YouTube videos and cover the videos when you're still trying to watch them or read whatever is written on the screen.