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Who is that Matty Matt kid who rings you like 12 times a day, anyway? It's like he can't do the simplest of every day things without ringing you for advice and input first.

Dear Clueless Dancer,

People are laughing at you because you look stupid, that's why!

-Fnord-

I thought wowser might have been the correct word to describe you, and what do you know, when I looked up the meaning there was a picture of you beside the definition!

I wish you didn't ignore me as much as you do. Merely acknowledging my existence from time to time isn't enough.

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Dear Disablists,

I am an Aspie. I was raised by a drunken, bigoted bully who beat me whenever possible, and for whatever reason he thought was right. I was bullied at school by anyone looking for a victim, as well. The police used to round me up with the other usual suspects whenever there was an incident of vandalism, theft, or burglary, and accuse me of the crimes simply because I acted 'weird'.

My first wife cheated on me, and her rich boyfriend not only paid for her divorce lawyer, but also got me fired from work and blacklisted for employment all over town. I lost my family, my home, and my job, and ended up homeless and on the streets. To get out of abject poverty, I enlisted in my country's military, where I rose up in rank twice as fast as my peers, and earned an Honorable discharge.

I put myself through university, and eventually earned an MSEE degree. I have remarried, and enjoy a new life with my wife and her relatives here on the West Coast. We are prominent in our church. We own our home. We both work full-time and our co-workers come to us to solve their problems. People like us for who we are, and not for our wealth.

Now you come along and declare that I am an 'Abelist', and that stories like mine are told to 'shame' you into becoming better people. You tell me that a person with an ASD could never succeed at life, and that "Horatio Alger" stories are myths. You tell me that for you there is no hope, and that you have given up trying to improve yourselves because your ASD makes it impossible for you to do anything useful.

Had I learned 40 to 50 years ago that I have an ASD (instead of in the last 10 years), and had I been taught to believe since then that I was a hopeless case with a crippling disease that would prevent me from ever achieving any measure of autonomy and success in my life, then I would also have become one of those people complaining about how life is 'unfair' and how the world owes me something.

(If you are truly crippled by ASD, then this is not about you; but if you use your ASD as an excuse to not even try to become a better person, then this is about you.)

I am proud of my accomplishments; even prouder after learning from you that such accomplishments are supposed to be impossible due to ASD. I have achieved something. Now you want me to stop telling my story.

Stuff it.

Sincerely,

Fnord

Dear Disablists:

I was raised by a mentally challenged and disinterested mother and an alcoholic step-father.
I experienced suicidal ideation at the age of ten. At fifteen I switched to a more cosmopolitan high school and forced myself to join clubs. I made friends.
Also at age 15, I got a part time job as a clerk. I worked steadily up until age 43, sometimes part-time, sometimes full. I completed a bachelor of arts part-time In the 90s.
I have a failed marriage behind me and got a diagnosis at age 38.
After having supported myself for 28 years I am now on long-term disability for ASD co-morbids, general anxiety disorder and depression, for which I am reliant on medication.
I have not been able to have a successful relationship and am unsure if I can. So I am taking steps towards emotional self-sufficiency.

I hope that's inspiring to someone. It's the best I can do.

Goddammit, I missed that pic.

Please stop bugging me. My brain already feels like it's going to explode.

Dear_____,

When I first met you, I thought that you were much better looking than the picture I had seen! I really wanted to get to know you, but you were my supervisor. I didn't know an appropriate way to strike up a conversation.

I remember when I realized I had a crush, or feelings for you. It was our quads meeting. I found myself checking you out. Lol.

Your jokes always made me laugh! You didn't really joke around with me as much as the others. It was probably because I was shy and quiet. You didn't think you could.

I was very sad when I had to leave your team. I was devastated when we found out our office was closing; I was sure I would never see you again. I was glad when you accepted my Facebook friend request. When I went through your posts, I liked you even more.

I know you have a girlfriend, and that you're happy with her. I see the pictures you post of the two of you, your face is lit up like a Christmas tree! That's cool. It still hurts that we can't be friends though. It's very hard for me to get past being acquaintances with someone.

_____, I really need you to know that I care about you. If you ever need an extra friend, you know where to find me, on Facebook. Oh, and you can like or reply to my posts anytime you want! Lol.

Love,_____

Great thread!! I'm glad I got this off chest!

Castello White was only $3.50 each at Woolworths.

I hope that one day you will realize that you were more sinned against than sinning; that you were manipulated from the start by a narcissist for her own selfish purposes. I think of you every day, and pray for your healing, even though I don't believe in "God". I just pray to whatever is out there in the Cosmos, whatever it is, because my heart aches for the unhealed pain in your heart, and the effect that has had on your adult life so far. I hope this will be the year that you find love, peace and healing.

Umm good luck with your honeymoon in Vanuatu. I hope the CAT 5 cyclone doesn't hit and leaves your resort still standing.

Why you would book a tropical holiday to depart during the climax of the cyclone season is beyond me but...

Hope your shoulder is ok.

I wish you two had considered what kind of a world I would grow up in before you relieved yourselves.

For lack of a "Thank You", the employee was lost.
For lack of an employee, the password was lost.
For lack of a password, the files were lost.
For lack of a file, the source code was lost.
For lack of a program, the contract was lost.
For lack of a contract, the business was lost.
For lack of a business, the income was lost.
For lack of an income, the home was lost.
For lack of a home, the family was lost.
For lack of a family, health was lost.
For lack of health, the life is at risk.

...

Now, don't you wish you had shown me just a little gratitude, just once?