Can you blame for doing this?

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Okay last night I broke a guys jaw, shattered his eye sockets and knocked his teeth out in a rage. I fled the with my friends and have not been arrested yet (probably will). You know why I did this? Becaue he insulted me.

You know the reason why I am like this? Because I was assulted 7 years ago when I was 14 by a 16 year old and was bullied in school and those painful memories have never gone away its like a vicious cycle.

Like me human beings are disgusting violent creatures who love to inflict pain upon each other and are no different form animals.

Any advice because I have become the violent bully because abused i suffered at the hands of other people.

No. 2 wrongs don't make a right in any case whatsoever.

Words shouldn't hurt you, ever. I don't get why you couldn't just shrug it off and walk away. Did he do anything to physically provoke you liek shove? Don't answer that, it's too late.

There's no advice to be given, really. You're probably in trouble as it is.

Have not been arrested yet

I am in a hell of a lot of trouble. I may never get caught though?????

Seriously though is thier anyway I can keep a low profile?

Honestly, you should turn yourself in. This will look good in the eyes of the law.

Yeah but being in jail ain't nice.

If that guy knows who you are I'd suggest you turn yourself in too. Or, if that guy is not too much of an ass, try to resolve the matter with him. I can imagine you might have problems with that though.

Nasty situation, good luck with it.

Yeah I will be in a whole world of trouble.

Yeah but what you did ain't nice. As the saying goes, you made your bed, now lie in it. In other words, you made bad choices, so you should take responsibility for what you did.

Yeah you may as well accept the consequences of what you did.

Are you arrested yet?

Depends on the words.

Sorry to make light of it, but I've been where you are, or thereabouts, and people forget that words can do more than break bones, they can kill people.

You won't go to jail (it wasn't unprovoked, though it was excessive force. The guy wasn't too banged up either), but you'll go to court and all that jazz.

The guy wasn't too banged up either???? Broken jaw. Shattered eye sockets. Knocked out teeth. Thank goodness for assault laws that make crap like this illegal, as it should be.

Not arrested yet

Nah, that's pretty typical.

I'm going on the assumption that the individual above verbally abused (assault) the OP; the OP responded with excessive force (provoked assault and battery causing grievous bodily harm), albeit with many mitigating circumstances (a decent lawyer will see these, as will the police). Since it wasn't unprovoked, the "victim" in question will most likely recover, and the OP isn't a threat to public safety (wasn't unprovoked and I'm guessing no prior convictions), then he will avoid jail.

He'll probably have to go to forced therapy, however.

the guy had it coming

That is not the reason. I was bullied throughout school. I've been assaulted mentally physically and sexually. It is not an excuse. Be good.