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Jamesy
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25 Jul 2010, 12:20 pm

Do you think some people feel they have a fiar amount of friends so they choose to not be friendly to somebody for no reason whatsoever?

Not exactley right is it?

Do you think this happens quite a lot?

Obviously some people don't get a long becasue of a number of factors of course.



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25 Jul 2010, 12:55 pm

Yes, many people are only friendly with people they want to befriend. It's a weird thing to do in my opinion, but then again I'm generally a pretty nice person. It's just odd to me for someone to be hostile or unfriendly towards someone without a real reason for it.


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25 Jul 2010, 1:11 pm

I think some people don't wan't outsiders invading thier friendship circle? I guess you can't be friends with everyone.

A geuine saintly person would be friendly to anybody they met for the first time.



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25 Jul 2010, 1:13 pm

I hardly think being polite is saintly. It's just good manners. Many people lack manners these days.


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25 Jul 2010, 8:35 pm

I like to be friendly, with all the people that I meet. I treat people the way that I'd like them to treat me.


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26 Jul 2010, 3:00 pm

I wonder if it is even possible to be able to judge that any unfriendly behavior of anyonelse can be attributed to oneself as a person. I doubt that. I assume people do what they are foremost absed on their own needs and if they are friendly or not that may be based primarily on their needs. At least I think this is an important factor.