Personality Color Quiz
http://www.colorquiz.com/
It's very accurate, at least for me, at least for an online personality test.
Your Existing Situation
Defensive. Feels his position is threatened or inadequately established. Determined to pursue his objectives despite the anxiety induced by opposition.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads him to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.
Yes, except that things will get better... in some way, for some reason. I'm special because I'm me. My concious existance must mean that I'm going to do something cool.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to him.
Yes, in terms not that strong.
Circumstances force him to compromise and to forgo some pleasures for the time being. Capable of achieving physical satisfaction from sexual activity.
No. Everybody likes sex.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual trust.
I doubt it. That would just mean stress.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting him from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
Well, I try...
Your Existing Situation
Feels obstructed in his desires and prevented from obtaining the things he regards as essential.
Story of my life.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads him to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises
uncertainty and apprehension? Daily factors.
standings and prestige? Pointless.
Doubts things will get better? Absolutely not.
Exaggerated demands? I'm not sure what this means.
Overall, this one doesn't seem very applicable
Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels he is receiving less than his share, but that he will have to conform and make the best of his situation.
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to him.
Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.
my share? Financially I'm fine. Emotionally/socially, completely void. So in that respect, true.
Conformity? I suppose this is true, as I am trying to find out how "normal" people act, what they expect, and how to act accordingly.
Egocentric? All part of being an aspie, though I try not to get offended (it's hard though, especially when I hear "morally upright" people talk about the importance of excommunicating their friends if they are unable to control them)
Sensitive and sentimental? I wish.
Concealed? I've gone over enough aspects of my life on IGN that people want me to shut up about it.
Satisfaction through sex? I've never had sex, and while I definitely do want to experience it, sex without meaning would do nothing for me, beyond the acedemic.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks affectionate, satisfying and harmonious relationships. Desires an intimate union, in which there is a love, self-sacrifice and mutual trust.
The desire to feel loved, and to love someone in return. I don't think that there is anything in the world I would like more than that.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting him from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
My goals are exceedingly basic, so I see no reason to abandon them. What the second part describes would be the achievement of those goals.
Readily participates in things that provide excitement or stimulation. Wants to feel exhilarated
to some extent. The need for stimulation is much stronger than the need for excitement.
Although I appreciate excitement if it is carefully planned.
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
...
Believes that she is not receiving her share--that she is neither properly understood nor adequately appreciated. Feels that she is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave her without any sense of emotional involvement.
Willing to become emotionally involved, but demanding and particular in her choice of a partner and in her relations with those close to her. Needs reassurance and is careful to avoid open conflict since this might reduce her prospects of realizing her hopes.
pretty acurate, although I do not always avoid open conflict. I have very strong opinions, and am the most hard headed person I know.
Considers the existing circumstances disagreeable and over-demanding. Refuses to allow anything to influence her point of view
yup.
The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and make a name for herself--has become imperative. She reacts by insisting on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or minor role.
I do not like beeing the center of attention, but I wouldn't like blending in with every other person. I concider myself unique, and I wouldn't change the way I am.
Your Existing Situation
This represents a barrier between the compensatory colors which precede it and the remaining colors.
Your Stress Sources
Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that she has a right to anything she might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against her. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration. Sees herself as a 'victim' who has been misled and abused, mistakes this dramatization for reality and tries to convince herself that her failure to achieve standing and recognition is the fault of others.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Believes that she is not receiving her share--that she is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated. Feels that she is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave her without any sense of emotional involvement.
Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity providing no turmoil or emotional agitation is involved.
Your Desired Objective
Has an imperative need for some bond or fusion with another which will prove sensually fulfilling, but which will not conflict with her convictions or sense of fitness.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and she is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. She attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as she desires them to be.
Your Actual Problem #2
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on her resources. This feeling of powerlessness subjects her to agitation and acute distress. She attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as she desires them to be.
Your Existing Situation
Seeks to express the need for identification in a sensitive and intimate atmosphere where esthetic or emotional delicacy can be protected and nurtured.
Your Stress Sources
Wishes to be independent, unhampered, and free from any limitation or restriction, other than those which she imposes of herself or by her own choice and decision.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels cut off and unhappy because of the difficulty in achieving the essential degree of cooperation and harmony which she desires.
Believes that she is not receiving her share--that she is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated. Feels that she is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave her without any sense of emotional involvement.
Clings to her belief that her hopes and ideas are realistic, but needs encouragement and reassurance. Applies very exacting standards to her choice of a partner and wants guarantees against loss or disappointment.
Your Desired Objective
Badly in need of rest and relaxation, freedom from conflict, and the chance to recover. Wants to protect herself against destructive and exhausting influences. Longs for security and freedom from problems.
Your Actual Problem
Seeks security and a position in which she will no longer be troubled by demands being made on her.
CockneyRebel
Veteran

Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 50
Gender: Male
Posts: 117,583
Location: In my little Olympic World of peace and love
My exsisting situation:
I'm working to improve my Image in the eyes of others in order to obtain their compliance and agreement with my Needs and Wishes.
My stress sources:
I have an unsatisfied need to to ally myself with others who's standards are as high as my own, and to stand out from the Herd. My control of my personal instincts restricts my ability to give myself, but the leading isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow myself to merge with another. This disturbs me, as such instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; I feel that only by continued self-restraint can I hope to maintain my attitude of individual superiority. I want to be loved and admired for myself alone; I need the attention, recognition and the esteem of others.
My restrained characteristics:
I insist that my goals are realistic and I stick obstinatley to them, even though circumstances are forcing me to compromise. I'm very exacting in the standards that I apply to my choice of a partner.
My desired objective:
I strive for a life that's rich in activity and experience, and for a close bond offering sexual and emotional fulfillment.
My actual problem:
The fear that I might be prevented from achieving the things that I want leads me to play my part with an urgent and hectic intensity.
My actual problem #2:
I take a delight in action and I want to be respected and esteemed for my personal accomplishments.
hyper_alien
Veteran

Joined: 18 Apr 2006
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,039
Location: In the arms of me lover
Your Existing Situation
Acts in an orderly, methodical, and self-contained manner. Needs the sympathetic understanding of someone who will give her recognition and approval.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads her to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.
Your Restrained Characteristics
An unadmitted lack of confidence makes her careful to avoid open conflict and she feels she must make the best of things as they are.
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to her.
Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief.
Your Desired Objective
Suffering from the effects of those things which are being rejected as disagreeable, and is strongly resisting them. Just wants to be left in peace.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. Her refusal to admit this leads to her adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude.
Wow
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Me.
theHappyHiker
Butterfly

Joined: 20 Feb 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 14
Location: Somewhere in New England...and Toledo, Ohio when not...
Eerily accurate--this pretty well describes my difficulties in my prerequisite classes to apply for med school.
Your Existing Situation
Working to improve his image in the eyes of others so as to obtain their compliance and agreement with his needs and wishes.
Your Stress Sources
Wants to overcome a feeling of emptiness and to bridge the gap which he feels separates himself from others. Anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to explore all its possibilities, and to live it to the fullest. He therefore resents any restriction or limitation being imposed on him and insists on being free and unhampered.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Remains emotionally unattached even when involved in a close relationship.
Feels that he cannot do much about his existing problems and difficulties and that he must make the best of things as they are. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks success, stimulation, and a life full of experience. Wants to develop freely and to shake off the shackles of self-doubt, to win, and to live intensely. Likes contacts with others and is enthusiastic by nature. Receptive to anything new, modern, or intriguing; has many interests and wants to expand his fields of activity. Optimistic about the future.
Your Actual Problem
Fights against restriction or limitation, and insists on developing freely as a result of his own efforts.
Your Actual Problem #2
The fear that he might be prevented from achieving the things he wants leads him to play his part with an urgent and hectic intensity.
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I'll think of something witty to put here later.
<i>This text is supposed to be italicized!</i>
Not all completely accurate. But it gets pretty close in some parts. Pff, I love it how "isolation" seems to be one of the main themes throughout it as well...
Your Existing Situation
Is seeking a solution to existing problems or anxieties, but is liable to find it difficult to decide on a right course to follow.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense, leaving her rather isolated in her attachments.
Unhappy at the resistance she feels whenever she tries to assert herself. However, she believes that there is little she can do and that she must make the best of the situation.
Your Desired Objective
Considers the existing circumstances disagreeable and over-demanding. Refuses to allow anything to influence her point of view.
Your Actual Problem
The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and make a name for herself--has become imperative. She reacts by insisting on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or minor role.
Your Existing Situation
Sensuous. Inclined to luxuriate in things which give gratification to the senses, but rejects anything tasteless, vulgar, or coarse.
Your Stress Sources
Feels that life has far more to offer and that there are still important things to be achieved--that life must be experienced to the fullest. As a result, she pursues her objectives with a fierce intensity that will not let go of things. Becomes deeply involved and runs the risk of being unable to view things with sufficient objectivity, or calmly enough; is therefore in danger of becoming agitated and of exhausting her nervous energy. Cannot leave things alone and feels she can only be at peace when she has finally reached her goal.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Remains emotionally unattached even when involved in a close relationship.
Circumstances are forcing her to compromise, to restrain her demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things she wants.
Your Desired Objective
Seeks success, stimulation, and a life full of experience. Wants to develop freely and to shake off the shackles of self-doubt, to win, and to live intensely. Likes contacts with others and is enthusiastic by nature. Receptive to anything new, modern, or intriguing; has many interests and wants to expand her fields of activity. Optimistic about the future.
Your Actual Problem
The fear that she might be prevented from achieving the things she wants leads her to play her part with an urgent and hectic intensity.
sounds about right i guess
I've taken this before and thought it worked pretty well. Took it again only backwards, that is I did the opposite of what the test suggested, and picked the colors I liked least, first. It still worked pretty well. To me the analyses of situations, stress factors, etc. are so universal as to be individually meaningless. Fun to speculate about though.
An aside:
No. Everybody likes sex.
I disagree. Not everyone likes or enjoys sex. I don't, and know many others who don't.
Now that the test has finally decided to work for me, here's the results. My comments are in italics, as some others' are.
Your Existing Situation
Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect,
recognition, and understanding of those close to her.
Not orderly or methodical. I'm a pack-rat (and magpipe) to no end - only I can find where I put something, and even then it's iffy. I do, however, need respect, recongnition (but not much) and understanding.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are
as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. Her control of her
sensual instincts restricts her ability to give herself, but the
resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow herself to merge
with another. This disturbs her. as such instincts are regarded as
weaknesses to be overcome; she feels that only by continued self-restraint
can she hope to maintain her attitude of individual superiority. Wants
to be loved or admired for herself alone; needs attention, recognition,
and the esteem of others.
Maybe. I tend to argue with the standing out from the herd part. If I could do it confidently, maybe, but at this moment I would hate to be surrounded by people looking up to me. As for the high standards, completely true - my standards are very demanding, but I don't think it would be impossible to find a partner who shares those. I know a few other people who are like this.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels cut off and unhappy because of the difficulty in achieving the
essential degree of cooperation and harmony which she desires.
Very exacting in the standards she applies to her choice of a partner and
seeking a rather unrealistic perfection in her sex life.
Yes to the first part - part of it is the Aspie-ness, I can't get others to understand my plans and thus don't get cooperation. As for the second part, I wouldn't doubt it. I just feel that I'm too young (15) to have a sex life, so I wouldn't know for sure.
Your Desired Objective
Demands that ideas and emotions shall merge and blend perfectly.
Refuses to make any concessions or to accept any compromises.
I've been caught.
Your Actual Problem
The fear that she might be prevented from achieving the things she
wants drives her to the exploitation of all types of experience, so that
she may categorically deny that any of them has any value. This
destructive denigration becomes her method of concealing hopelessness and a
profound sense of futility.
So-so. I'm not always hopeless - I go through period of extreme optimism, usually followed by the opposite. I know I deny values however.
Your Actual Problem #2
The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and
make a name for herself--has become imperative. She reacts by insisting
on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or
minor role.
A bit off. I hate being the center of attention, at least in social situations, and will often sink into my own corner, where I can work by myself. I'll play a minor role from time to time, but I usually don't get asked to - my work ethic has earned respect.
Overall, this test seems to describe my mental attitude. My real world, eh I'm actually here in reality attitude is much different.
And I have a strong suspicion that it's because I picked the happy colors last.
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"Nothing worth having is easy."
Three years!
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Your Existing Situation
Needs peace and quiet. Desires a close and faithful partner from whom to demand special consideration and unquestioning affection. If these requirements are not met, is liable to turn away and withdraw altogether
Yes, especially the peace and quiet.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled expectations have led to uncertainly and an apprehensive watchfulness. Badly needs to feel secure and protected against further disappointment, being passed over, or losing standing and prestige. Doubtful that things will be any better in the future, but inclined nevertheless to make exaggerated demands or reject compromise
About right.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Distressed by the obstacles with which she is faced and is no mood for any form of activity or for further demands on her. Needs peace and quiet, and the avoidance of anything which might distress her further.
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to him.
I'm not f***ing well sentimental. Or egocentric. The rest is true though.
Your Desired Objective
Feels too much is being asked of her and is tired out, but still wants to overcome her difficulties and establish herself despite the effect such an effort would house on her. Proud, but redesigned in her attitude. Needs recognition, security, and fewer problems.
Mostly very true.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety. Desires recognition and position, but is worried about her prospects. Reacts to this by protecting at any criticism and resisting any attempt to influence her. Tries to assert herself by meticulous control of detail in an effort to strengthen her position.
Yep.
Your Actual Problem #2
Afraid that she may be prevented from achieving the things she wants and therefore demands that others should recognize her right to them.
First part is correct, second is BS. I demand nothing. I earn recognition.
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Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
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