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Smart blondie28
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22 Feb 2017, 9:24 am

Don't really have any female friends. In the past at uni/in general, a lot of girls have given me bad vibes, filthy looks or just ignored me. Never understood because I'm a genuine girl who is bubbly and tries to make an effort. I've have gotten along with some nice ones but only some then don't see them again.

Guys are good to get one with, but some perhaps want something more so then don't talk to me. I do want female friends, perhaps I haven't found the right people.



Zombini
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22 Feb 2017, 12:15 pm

Im a guy and ive always gotten along better with females than males but the older i get the more i realize that females can be very cruel with their mind games and a lot of them hate it when a person is honest and straight forward they would rather a friend pretend to agree with everything they say. But then again some guys are like that too...



Lunella
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22 Feb 2017, 12:46 pm

Yeah I used to have this problem a lot. It's simply just a case of them being rather childish/nasty and think the world revolves around them. There are nice women out there you just have to dig a bit deeper, maybe delve into the LGBTQ community, some of my best friends are lesbians and asexual females and they are super easy to get along with. A lot of these like straight mainstream girls tend to just think every other girl is a threat, especially when it comes to men so it's kinda just boring if anything. It's the best thing ever when you have a female best friend who is really similar to you cause you get each other and there's no awkwardness or sillyness. Keep at it I'm sure you'll find a few.


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