Have A Good One... Arrrggghh

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Does anybody else hate it like I do when people give you that line, "Have A Good One"? This line always impresses me as being so disingenuous and phony and really does annoy me intensely and grate on my nerves like fingernails on a chalkboard. Then there is that sexual connotation as if the people saying it lack the gumption to say what they really mean and resort to this creepy double meaning instead. Not only that, but the people who say this are usually the same ones who went out of their way the night before to snub you and ensure that you did not have a good one. It is so selfish and intimidating while pretending to be well wishing... aka patronizing.

This line is in the same class as that "what's up" line or its lower life version of "wuzzup". Maybe its just me, but I always think that people should say what they mean and mean what they say.

I was unaware of the sexual connotations to that saying. I always thought you just substituted the word "day" for where they said "one."

I agree, wuzzup is pretty annoying.

Yes it annoys me to no end-have a good one what? what am I having a good one of-another thing is when some one says "we did this or we did that-who's we its obvious there is one person that did whatever and is speaking

Everyone says that around here. I haven't devoted that much thought to its meaning before.

I also hate that saying. I don't like the meaning behind it. Am I supposed to have sex at the end of my Birthday, or something?

What I really hate is:
"Good try!"

What was I trying to do, and how could it be good if I did't actually accomplish whatever I was suppose to be doing?

This can be used in a lot of instances where the meaning is clear and where you would normally use:

have a good + noun


Some examples

Have a good day - have a good one

Have a good weekend - have a good one

Have a good game of golf - have a good one

Have a good holiday - have a good one


But we need the meaning to be clear, usually from preceding information:

A - I'm going on holiday tomorrow.

B - Hey, have a good one!

Everytime I have heard it said it was in reference to something really good and just small talk.

I never heard of anybody using it in a sarcastic tone like that and never heard a sexual connotation associated with it.

But of, course it depends on what an individual means by it.

Most commonly though it just means have a good day. Small talk not unlike, take care, take it easy, see you later. Does it mean people really care if you have a good day. No. Just small talk.

I remember though an older guy that use to respond back saracastically to people when they said that: don't tell me what to do. But he was just joking, but it was evident from the context of the situation (he laughed after he said it).

A while ago, I was involved with a group that was practicing a martial art, and had regular practice sessions in the evening. It's not really important which one, what is important to this short story was that I was a stranger to all these people, and that never really changed. And folks were from all parts of the world, with a particularly large proportion hailing from the UK or other Commonwealth countries. So they tended to be polite, and there were rote things they'd say like "good evening, how are you?" Like the complete nerd/social ret*d that I am, I would put some thought into my responses and answer explicitly, taking up at least 45 more seconds of time than the 2 seconds that the greeter had in mind.

After a few weeks of this, one fella took me aside for a bit and, really nicely, explained, "You know, when someone asks you how you are, you should just say 'fine.' Because in general, unless you have specific information otherwise, well... if you're not actually fine, the person asking probably doesn't actually want to know." He had to point it out to me for me to realize that, yeah, he's probably right. It'd be rude for him to not say *something* if it's the first time he sees me that day, but it's also sort-of rude for me to take up more than a few seconds of his time for me to also acknowledge that he's nearby too.

It took me even longer to realize that, yeah, having to have this explained to oneself at 25 years of age is probably ... atypical.

Ahem:

"What's up?"
"How goes it?"
"How are you doing today?"

Most social ritual is basically just people not meaning what they're saying, but being upset if you don't say it.

Is it any wonder I hate social ritual?

"Have a good un" sounds very rednecky.

Normally after someone would tell me have a good one, it would be when one of us was leaving the interaction. I would just respond something like, you too. or yea, take it easy.

People are kind of uncomfortable ending an interaction without some kind of small talk phrase. It normally is just an alternate way of saying bye.

I looked it up on urban dictionary and it had the following definitions:

It's similar to "take it easy." When someone says "take it easy," sometimes the response is, "I take it anyway I can get it," which sounds like a trite, tacky response. It could be described as reasonable. I once told someone to take it easy as I was parting and they responded that way. I looked back in complete surprise.

I say "have a good one"

I don't see anything wrong with it.

It's an easy goodbye.

Don't understand how it could be taken negative.

I always liked it when people said it to me so I started saying it.

I've got no problem with it. I know what they mean. It's in the standard social greeting lexicon and pretty straight forward.

I hate 'How are you?' as a greeting much much more.